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Surgeon TestimonialMitchell S. Roslin M.D.If you're looking for a new best friend or for someone to hold your hand, Roslin may not be your man. HOWEVER, if you're looking for a surgeon who is skilled, competent and truly has a gift from God, you're in the right place. I continued fighting for insurance approval with Mitch Roslin because I'd heard he was incredibly skilled in performing the DS. In a market like NYC where there are a plethora of surgeons who perform this procedure, he remains a stand-out. Reports from his post-op patients were so excellent, that I knew I could settle for no one else. There were delays and miscommunications with his office staff at times but every day post-op I regret nothing because I know I put myself in the best hands possible.
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Super Seven Switchiversary! on November 19, 2011 2:19 pm
If you're keeping track... Today is my 7 year switch-i-versary... One of the greatest things I've ever done. Have maintained more than 150 lbs weight loss since the surgery. A little tougher this year since some unrelated medical issues and menopause have decided to team up and interfere but I persevere. Thank God for Dr Mitch Roslin at Lenox Hill Hospital... He is a rock star!
God has made me pretty much a model for the DS, altho--because of my several autoimmune diseases --I'm down a few quarts these days.I always claimed that, for the most part, I didn't have a huge appetite even, tho I was fat. Most of my post-DS results have proved me out.
Maintaining my weight loss has been terrific but then I eat healthier than ever (5 small meals daily, where 1-2 of the meals are as simple as an apple or 2 oz of raw almonds). I stay away from refined carbs, almost always eat sugar-free... yet I enjoy food more than ever. Having a cutoff point is awesome. I never did stretch my belly back.
Due to some severe stressors over the past couple of years, I did fall behind in my supplements which didn't help my other issues much. Most importantly, everyone should know that vitamin deficiencies affect the mind as much as the body, so don't be surprised if you find yourself feeling very depressed and coincidentally register low D, for example. Thank God I'm back on that track.
It is my pleasure to "be here"... in every way!
Blessings always.
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When it's Not "All About Me" on October 17, 2011 6:04 pm
Hey kids... Dropping by to let you know I'll be speaking about "Improving Every Relationship" at the Hauppauge LI OH Event this Saturday 10/22 at 4pm. It sure will be good to see you and exchange some powerful hugs.
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Stopping Back to Pay it Forward on July 12, 2010 2:09 pm
As usual, life continues to speed along, with or without my participation. I have a mixed bag of news to share but since I refuse to spew all over a page without providing something useful, it’s taken me some time to post my experience and share it in a way that you (hopefully) find helpful.
To make a long story short, I’ve been a bad girl--and not in a good way. I stopped taking my vitamins/supplements religiously a couple of years ago and managed to keep myself “out of danger” by having my homemade coffee-protein shake and eating very healthily.
But a torrent of crummy circumstances occurred simultaneously: DH let go from a well-paying, well-deserved job he held for 14 years (without a sick day)--the exact month we had finished paying off $120,000 in debt (after five years of debt consolidation) and were going to apply for a mortgage to buy the house of our dreams; beloved family dog died shortly after coming to live with us again after “working” for several years as a companion for an old friend (who took us to court for asking her to leave the house where we had let her stay AND paid all her bills)… Mom's 80th birthday that played out more like “Weekend at Bernie’s” (she’s had Alzheimers for 15 years)... Yes, there IS more but I’ll spare you...
With fibromyalgia, severe Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis and chronic fatigue syndrome, I had become convinced that my small dose (25mcg) of Synthroid was making me suicidal and that depression was the reason I had sunk so low. So I simply stopped taking it. Then I sank lower.
Over the past few months, it was clear by my "symptoms" that I was low on iron (e.g., no color to my skin, nails and the membranes under my eyes; lessening mental acuity and ability to concentrate; brittle nails; nonexistent energy); Vitamin A (dry skin, rashes, problems focusing eyes); Vitamin K (bruising); Calcium (joints creaking when flexing); Vitamin D & Zinc (decreased immunity levels; if it was “going around,” I caught it); Vitamin B (some neuropathy—lazy feet, feet falling asleep easily)… ad nauseum. Literally. The only right things I did were continuing to eat fresh foods, keeping protein first and staying reasonably hydrated.
What I have since learned that is imperative you all know (in case you hadn’t realized it already) is that what you may think is “only” depression is probably more related to the chemical imbalances caused by deficiencies.
Wherever life takes you, there’s a reason behind why you feel lousy. It’s not all depression or disappointment or “inability to cope.”
One hand washes the other & one malfunction is likely to affect/spark another.
Don’t give up on being a better you (which is easy to do);
Don’t think that you aren’t meant to live a better paced life (you might);
Don’t think that everything is too overwhelming and it’s better to lay in a fetal position than take chances (you will).
Find the impetus in you that risked it all to have this surgery & take it to a medical professional to fix what’s wrong.
You are so freakin’ worth it. See it, believe it, make it happen. Face it, fix it, rock it.
So I’ve been doing the iron infusion thing. When I started my hemoglobin was at 6; I’m almost at 11 (norm is about 12-16). Finally “regaining the will to live and regenerate.”
Downside is I’ve put on about 10 lbs because the supplement (Venofer) is 30% sucrose and my body is sucking up all the “sugar” along with the iron. (I live a sugar-free lifestyle, so those of you who know me know how aggravating & upsetting it is to me to put on any weight—even if most think I need it/look better.) But it’s also great motivation never to get to the point of needing clinical intervention for supplementation again.
I have SO learned my lesson. They tell me the weight gain is a necessary evil because it’s better than being anemic and that once the treatments are over, I will be able to eliminate the sucrose in my body. Sort of like taking steroids though; weight gain is weight gain—even when it has nothing to do with poor eating habits.
Additionally, I’m back to my daily coffee-protein shakes, I mix liquid vitamins in with my SF Hawaiian Punch… I’m chewing my calcium wafers…
The gratitude, as usual, comes with surviving and emerging from the other side of crap with renewed determination, improved health, and the ability to share the downside with you in hopes you learn from my stupidity that there’s much more to deficiencies than words/warnings and feeling lousy: IT MESSES WITH YOUR HEAD IN A MAJOR WAY.
So… Don’t let it get to the point I did. But if it has and you see any of you in my words/sharing... Get your butt to help... IM-freakin'-ME-DIATELY.
Get it? Got it? GOOD!!
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Five Year Switch-i-versary! on November 19, 2009 6:53 am
I will spare you a long lengthy diatribe. This has been done before--by me--and is accessible on the web via my various links available on my profile but I will tell you this:
Five years ago: I felt as though my life was over (but was optimistic)
Today: I feel as though my life has just begun.
I am 54 years old. I have never gained more than 10 lbs in five years--and that was all either water weight or hormone induced. I still can't eat more than 12 oz in one sitting but do eat every 2-3 hours. A humongous red pear wiIl still fill me up so much that I can't finish it but I'm satisfied as all get out.
I eat fresh wholesome foods, whole grains, sugar-free and have become a gourmet, a cooking whiz and have even started canning (recently put up my own SF meat tomato sauce, SF cranberry sauce, SF cranberry jam, SF apple butter, etc) ... I make my own yogurt, my own SF granola, etc etc and love every second of it. Eat out rarely because I can either imitate or improve upon the sugar-salt-and-preservative-laden-fare.
I have not waivered over 135 lbs since the great Mirena disaster of 2006 (that put 10 hormone-filled pounds on my body that took months to eliminate and caused a 1"x3" benign tumor in my breast) and because my body still changes/firms from proper eating and physical activity (no plastic surgery), I appear thinner than ever. I'm just under 130 lbs now: Maintaining a 190 lb weight loss to date.
Life is not without its challenges. I am not perfect. Everything from job loss to loss of friends and family (I still miss Rockin' Robin more than I can say... I think of her EVERYday; I just recently learned of Gary Viscio's and Crow's death; then of course there is Jeremy, who had his surgery the same day as mine and left us way too soon). My vits could be better; the autoimmune diseases persist. Yet there is an ebb and flow that reminds me life is for living not observing and even when I try to ride the wave, it pulls me in and demands my participation.
I am here to tell you that dreams ARE realized, persistence is key.
You matter. I matter. Believe it to your core.
Aspire Inspire Perspire ... or, if you like:
Aspire
Inspire
Make it happen!
Blessings to all of you... always!
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I'm On TV! on October 17, 2009 6:27 am
If you have "The Science Channel" (NOT ScyFy), watch "Head Games" starting tonight (10/17/09) and you will see me as a contestant in the next couple of weeks. As a matter-of-fact, here is sort of a preview: http://science.discovery.com/videos/head-games-webisodes-melissa-vs-matthew.html ... "Sort of" because this segment will not air in the U.S.; it is for the European networks that have less commercials. Figures, because I did darn well in this round.
Also, check my profile next month, when I will share life as a 5-year post-op. Blessings to each and every one of you. Always feel free to email/message me (Melissa.Mermaid@gmail.com) if I can be of any help since I rarely post or frequent OH anymore. You can also follow me on Twitter (http://www.twitter.com/MelissaMermaid) or Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/MelissaMermaid).
LHK to all of you always...
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My Story
Introduction
After 49 years of dealing with massive weight losses & gains (documented in words & pictures to be at least 1000 pounds), my metabolism had stopped working. Due to an autoimmune disease & related factors, it was impossible to lose weight on my own anymore.
As a result of my DS and following certain eating rules, my results have been phenomenal on every level imaginable ... nearly 200 lbs lost in less than 2 years, going from bedridden to walking miles at a time. Without this site & dozens of people who I have met here, my results would never have been as great. I have learned more about nutrition-vitamins-supplementation than I ever knew existed.
I hope you too experience the joys & benefits I have received on OH. Be sure to research carefully to make the best decisions because whether or not to have WLS is something you will have to live with forever.
Overview
11/19/04: 5'6" ~ BMI 51.8 (321 lb) BFI 52% ~ 1/11/07: 5'7" ~ BMI 20.7 (132 lb***) BFI 22%
I'm below MY goal & stabilizing; NO Plastic Surgery/Botox of any kind to date!
I am a very happily married writer and broadcast journalist who left my full-time job in television news in 2003 because of declining health.
Years of eating lowfat and going untreated for hyperthyroidism caused my thyroid to eat through the protein in my body and destroy my muscle mass. I had become bedridden and for the first time in my life, it had become virtually impossible to lose weight on my own anymore.
In the midst of addressing these health issues and having -- once again -- reached 300 lbs plus, I started looking into weight loss surgery. I knew that I couldn't possibly take another massive trip down the scale without something to stack the deck in my favor so I wouldn't start climbing it again.
I was no stranger to willpower and trying to eat right. In fact I overdid it so often that I blew my metabolism to bits. Nothing short of a "catabolic effect" was going to change that. Now instead of going to bed hungry every night like I almost always did when I was fat, I go to bed having eaten about five small meals a day and I'm a size 2 (at 5'7").
Unlike many others who come to OH, Carnie Wilson was never a role model for me. Because of our similarity in age and life story, I was more inspired by Sharon Osbourne, who had a lap band (even though she refers to it as her "gastric bypass"). I thought I too would have a lap band but my bariatric surgeon wasn't very enthusiastic about the band.
Then I found out about the DS (Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch) ... It sounded like the optimal weight loss surgery for me because of the longest sustained weight loss results and the most normal of post-op lifestyles.
Fast forward through insurance battles and trials and tribulations, hiring lawyer Gary Viscio, and accumulating volumes of information from "switch siblings," I created a binder of 369-pages and 81-documents that eventually proved to Empire BCBS that it is NOT an investigational procedure ... a claim they like to make to avoid approving it.
The lengthy battle was so worthwhile that if I knew then the life I would enjoy now, I would have put up with twice as hard of a fight. When you read some of my entries prior to surgery, you will see how herculean a task just getting up in the morning and trying to face the day could be. So the fact I say I would have gone through twice the battle is really saying something.
Through the grace of God, a very skilled surgeon, applying some diligence to how and what I ate, some extraordinary advice shared by fellow WLSers on the OH boards, love and support of family and friends, and incredible luck, I am now enjoying the life of my dreams. My health is not 100% but my hopes are and there are some days I scale heights I never thought a 51 year old could reach. Life isn't perfect but it usually is damned good.
Why the DS?
There are times when a poster asks the question on the main message board about DS v RNY. Those who have had - or want - the Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch (DS) and have done extensive research, often encounter an incredible amount of misinformation that many have received from their surgeons or via word-of-mouth. Our efforts to correct that information are often perceived as trying to “sell the DS” and I find that disconcerting.
We have absolutely nothing to gain by promoting the DS. Our enthusiasm for the procedure compels us to inform others about their full spectrum of options and to let them know that if they don’t fight for the DS – if that’s what they want – then everyone will continue to be persuaded by self-serving sources that it’s a bad or unsafe procedure (in spite of the voluminous clinical information that grows by leaps and bounds daily, proving quite the contrary). Hence insurance companies will continue to justify their denials for the DS, even when in the long-term they would improve their bottom line by approving it universally.
Unfortunately, some seem to be intentionally misled by their surgeons because they are simply not skilled in the intricacies of the DS. Remember, it is a more detailed procedure and not every doctor capable of performing an RNY can pull it off. This is not to diss your surgeon, it is a statement of fact.
In my instance, my surgeon performs both the DS and RNY. I went into my consult having surfed my way into DS awareness only the night before. In my opinion, that's where the luckiest part of my journey began -- especially since he is skilled at both procedures and my $500 out-of-pocket wasn't wasted.
Dr. Roslin's office gives the impression that the surgeries are practically interchangeable, yet the more I research, look and hear, they have distinct and glaring differences. The only negative the doctor voiced as a concern regarding the DS was the potential for lack of calcium absorption in a woman my age (48) -- which threw me for about twelve hours until I did more research. For the most part, he left the decision in my hands since it essentially didn’t matter to him which surgery I chose.
Personally, I wish Roslin's office assisted more in the fight for the DS because it would likely make my battle for insurance approval easier. Nonetheless, it's everything else that was said during our consult that stuck in my head and convinced me the DS was the option for me.
The DS is especially desirable to me for two very important medical reasons:
(1) My father had stomach cancer. If I have an RNY pouch, I cannot be adequately monitored for cancer without having open exploratory surgery. Since the DS simply cuts away the fundus (curved part of the stomach) versus creating a pouch, surgery would not be necessary if cancer were suspected. (BTW, my father’s cancer was “cured” by having the equivalent of a DS – and so was his lifelong battle with obesity; he has not gained any appreciable weight in over ten years); and
(2) I am nearly bedridden due to an autoimmune disease that leaves me constantly weak and fatigued. Because dumping is unpredictable in RNYers – ie, some dump on a variety of foodstuffs and for a variety of reasons - including but not limited to ingestion of sugar, fats, starches, and overeating. My system simply cannot take (possible) continual episodes of dumping. My pre-op life is already like dumping 24-7!
Then my surgeon said to me, verbatim: “With the RNY - in the worst case scenario - you’ll be 230 pounds for the rest of your life.” I’m approx 315 now. Having major surgery to lose 80 pounds was not my idea of a successful outcome.
Those of you who are at this weight and are happy there, please do not take offense. However, by my own devices, I have reached the 140 lb mark FOUR TIMES in my life but gained all the weight back each time to once again become SMO. So hitting 230 for a lifetime in spite of major surgery was not my idea of something with which I could be satisfied.
Then the fact that – again, in my surgeon’s words – “RNYers tend to start gaining weight at about one year to 18 months out; we don’t know why” further influenced my decision. He said only those who have completely modified their eating behaviors and avidly work out were able to maintain their full weight loss over time. Well, that's what I did the last time I lost weight and still managed to gain it back. To me, surgery is supposed to give me an edge I cannot otherwise attain, I felt no certainty that the RNY held for me the same edge that the DS does.
I'm having this surgery because of my thyroid-influenced autoimmune disease which now inhibits me from losing weight by less drastic methods. Ultimately, I expect to take the weight off once and for all and keep it off. I will work my tool like nobody's business but cannot accept that medicine recognizes the strong potential for weight regain in the RNY when there is an alternative surgery that does not pose as high a percentage rate of weight regain.
After my consult in December 2003 I researched my butt off and digested everything I could about the DS – good and bad. I challenged myself to find everything negative about the DS there was to find. I contacted former DS patients of my surgeon to find out about their successes or problems. They were all former and no latter.
I went to the different DS websites and Yahoo groups and examined the outcomes of patients’ surgeries and long-term successes of those patients. I compared that to their RNY and lapband counterparts, factoring in my personal experiences – including having been a participant in obesity studies at Rockefeller University twenty years ago - and my years of research and understanding of obesity (e.g., Did you know that you never lose fat cells? ... When you lose weight they change shape from round and fat to oblong and thin but continually cry out to be satiated -- that's why maintaining weight loss is such an uphill battle).
I found one case of seriously bad labs which resulted in a reversal of the DS (out of hundreds of patients I researched) – and that was an OH member who admittedly was not compliant with her vitamin and supplement protocol. (A must for all of us – whether RNY or DS. This cannot be stressed enough!)
Bathroom issues with the DS in 90% of the instances were directly related to what a person eats: Eat a lot of fatty food, spend considerably more time in the bathroom, often with loose movements (because the oils are not absorbed and essentially go right through your body); eat a lot of starchy and sugary simple carbs, you are gassier. But then my research shows this is almost identical with what a distal RNYer experiences.
Please know that regardless of my determination to have the DS and only the DS, I do not knock any other procedure and support whatever decision a thoroughly educated WLS-wannabe makes ... But please, before giving what you believe to be helpful advice about a procedure you do not really understand, do what most DSers have done … Research and find out for yourself.
What is a DS and What Can You Expect?
In a nutshell, there is no pouch. The fundus (most curved part of the stomach) is actually removed (instead of having a pouch fashioned) and the pyloric valve remains intact, allowing for a more natural elimination and digestion process. Essentially the intestines are rearranged like with a distal RNY but it's a little more complex than that. There is no potential for post-op complications such as a stricture (a narrowing of the stoma, which connects the pouch to the intestines).
Vomiting is possible with the DS but is more common when one eats too fast too early out when compared with many RNYers who tend to vomit more frequently because foods are not properly chewed to a puree consistency or the item eaten doesn't sit right in the pouch.
Dr. Hess, who was one of the first surgeons to perform the BPD/DS procedure that modified the BPD (without the DS -- aka the Scopinaro technique -- which did have more serious malabsorption problems) released data in July of 2004 regarding his ten-year study of DS patients and found that: "Compared to other bariatric surgeries, the DS is found to be superior in our practice. There are no foreign materials used. The pylorus is retained and controls the stomach emptying. There is no small stoma that could dilate causing failure, allowing the patient to eat normal meals."
In layperson's terms, this means that you will definitely eat less post-op than you did pre-op but with less restrictions than those who have the RNY. The malabsorption feature of the DS plays a very big part in the hows and whys of keeping the weight off. Still, the likelihood of malnutrition is almost a non-issue if the proper vitamin/supplement regimen is followed -- especially because you are actually able to gain more benefits from real foods ingested.
Check out these sites for more info and resources:
The Obesity Help DS Forum
A side-by-side comparison of the most widely-performed weight loss surgeries
The Duodenal Switch Information Zone
Duodenal Switch Yahoo Group
Read more about my personal weight loss journey by clicking here for my Duodenal Switch Information Zone Profile
DS Insurance Authorization Yahoo Group
DS Post-Op Problems Yahoo Group
Think I'm exaggerating? ... See The Ups & Downs of Being Me (with pictures)
Good luck and God bless whatever you do and wherever you go!
***Note: In the interest of FULL DISCLOSURE, it must be noted that I apparently have a SUPERHUMAN CAPACITY TO RETAIN WATER and my weight can fluctuate as much as ten pounds up or down from one day to the next. This is not a rationale but a reality. It must be known to all that this is a possibility with each and everyone of us (most especially women)... There is no way that ANYONE will gain 5 or more pounds in one day unless water retention and/or lots of sodium or an insane amount of eating is involved (and the latter is SO NOT TRUE FOR ME). Now, this is key: We must be honest with ourselves every single day. There is no such thing as not knowing how one gains weight. I can tell you, however, that I do not eat enough to constitute ANY weight gain and weight that is there one day can be gone the next -- especially if I take a water pill. This is my medical fact and I live with it. I am at a healthy BMI, maintain a BFI of 22% or lower and my size 0 jeans fit EVERYDAY (although due to water weight especially in my legs, sometimes my skinny jeans are tighter there than other days) It's a fact I have finally come to terms with but one I must share it -- especially because I know I'm not the only one with whom this happens. I hope this helps those who experience this annoying phenomenon to accept it and cope with it.***
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