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Surgeon Testimonial

Mercedeh Baghai
First impression was that she was a no nonsenese surgeon. She did not sugar coat anything! She explained all the risks of both RNY and Lapband. She laid out a plan and made it clear to me what was expected of me right from the beginning. The staff was more than accomodating with getting all my appointments scheduled in a timely matter. If they had an opening to get me in sooner... they did. I was supposed to see Dr. Baghai for my final ok before authorization in Dec. Since I had done so well with my pre-op diet, they moved it up to September... which resulted in a Nov. surgery date! That appointment with Dr. Baghai which was after all my testing was complete was much more one on one and personal and she was very thorough with going over all my test results with me. She answered all my questions and did not seem to mind that it was 7pm when we finished. My apt. was for 4:30.... I waited till 6pm to see her, and she took the time needed to go over everything and answer all my questions. She was very encouraging and made me feel good about what I had already accomplished. The only complaint I would have at this point is having to wait up to 2 hours past my appointment time to see Dr. Baghai. But I can see why... she takes her time with each patient, making sure to answer all your questions no matter how long it takes. I will update this as I continue my journey as Dr. Baghai's patient.
Member Interests
  • Animals - I am a veterinary technician and love animal medicine.
  • Family & Friends - I have 2 great kids that keep me on my toes and keep me feeling young!
  • Fitness & Exercise - I am currently walking, but would love to be able to run again!
  • Cats - I enjoy showing and breeding Persian cats.
  • Dancing - I love to dance. It has been a long time, but I love to 2step and line dance.
  • Music - I like all types of music, except Rap... but country is my favorite.
  • Horseback Riding - Love to go horseback riding... it's been awhile but I want to go again soon!
  • Tattoo - I have one tattoo that says alot about me. I call it my
  • Auto Racing - I do love to watch NASCAR.... love the power of a muscle car!!
  • WLS in your 40's - I am 43.... but feel much younger.

Hi.  My name is Debbi and I had RNY surgery on November 5, 2008! 

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6 wk post op report!
on December 20, 2008 9:49 am
Well not much weight loss to report... a whole 3 or 4 pounds.  It goes back and forth daily.  I have hit the dreaded 6 week stall!!!  I started back at work last week.  My first day back was going great, until a cat peed all over me.. filling my pocket with pee and drowning my cell phone!!!!  Arghhh!!  I lost all my contacts and had to go spend $150 on a new phone!!  My boss gave me $100 to cover most of it, which I thought was nice.  Now, no more cell phone in my pocket at work!! 
The eating is going ok.  We are getting so much stuff at work.... candy, cookies, etc.  I have been able to resist for the most part, but have been nibbling a little.  Unfortunately nothing seems to make me sick.  That really disappoints me... cause it would help me to not eat something if I knew it would make me feel physically crappy.  Maybe I'm just eating it in small enough amounts that its not a problem... I don't know.  I just need to get my mind set in the right frame again.  I am still seeking my goal of hitting 'Onederland' before the new year!!  It's been hard to exercise... I get home late from work, its dark, and my neighborhood is not the safest to walk.  I know, excuses, excuses!!  I need to do something!  Anything!! 
Well Christmas is in a few days... and as usual I am not dealing with it well.  I have not recieved my disability check... so now it has been 6 weeks with no income.  I am behind in rent, car payments, and needless to say... under the tree its empty.  I know things will get better soon... but will it be soon enough??  I am trying not to worry about it... things always work out... but it is getting down to the wire now...  and its hard to not think about it.  I got the billing statement from the hospital...  my share it says is $3400!!  That is my total co-payment for the year too, so Im not sure if that is a seperate co-payment, or includes the whole year.  I guess when I get an actual bill, I'll worry about it then.  The total hospital bill was $78,000!!!  Yikes... and the insurance only paid about $12,000 of it!!
Anyway....  I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!

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4 Week Post Op
on December 4, 2008 9:20 pm
Ok, so today was 4 weeks out.  Went to the Dr. and I'm down 9 more pounds.  I was a little dissapointed, but at least its a good loss.   I have had no problems with anything that I eat.  I'm not sure if thats a good thing or not... but I am eating the 'right' things. Well except for the pumpkin pie the day after Thanksgiving... ate a wee bit too much and had a little dumping.... pain, nausea, and rapid heart rate!!   Not fun!!  Live and learn, i guess! I am 10 lbs away from 'Onederland'!!  I'm a little over half way to my goal!!!   I need to exercise more!!!  I did go on a really nice long walk this morning... worked up a sweat, went up and down a bunch of stairs, etc.  I felt good about that!!  My protein level is still low... It only went up one point.  I don't know why... I thought I was doing pretty good on my protein intake.  My uric acid was normal... and that was without taking the meds... so no meds needed for now!! Yay!  But I guess I know what to do from here... eat more protein, and move my ass!!!!!  Speaking of which... I have lost my butt!!  It has literally disappeared...  I am trying to work that area extra hard when I walk so I at least have 'something' built up back there!!  And also... the NP said I was 'narrow' and I should do really well with the weight loss... huh?? me? narrow?? That was a new one for me!!!  Also while I was there they had a girl come in the room for me to give a pep talk to.  She was having trouble with the required pre-op weight loss and was ready to give up.  I hope I said something to her that helped!  But it was nice to know that they think that I am a great spokesperson for their program and what it takes to be successful!  I just love that office... everyone is so encouraging... if you follow the program.  If you don't... well... I overheard my Dr. say today... 'I hate being a bitch.. I really do... but they have to take this seriously... or they will not be successful'!! And I totally agree!!!  Well hopefully next post  I will be in 'Onederland' doing the happy dance!!!!
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Official 2 week post-op check up
on November 21, 2008 7:58 pm

So Yesterday I had my 2 week post op visit.  All went well, although I was a little disappointed I didn't get to see my surgeon as she was running way behind schedule.  She did come out and talk to me for a bit just before I left, so I felt better that I at least touched base with her.  The scale said 12 lbs lost since the day prior to surgery.  9 lbs in a week.  I am really happy with that!! No.. Im elated!!  My bloodwork was pretty good... the only exception was a low protein and high uric acid.   I had a bad weekend and I know I wasn't eating enough.  But now I have to take Allopurinol to prevent gout and kidney stones, and I gotta get that protein in!!  I have been having difficulty getting in all my fluids still, but it is getting better... I just have to stick to a routine.  I got the go ahead to eat soft foods, like scrambled eggs, cottage cheese, yougurt, etc.  So far I have had no intolerance to anything Ive eaten, and I get full on about a half cup of anything. I'm sipping a protein shake throughout the day that has 80 gms of protein... so hopefully that will help.  The bruises are now several shades of green and yellow, and hopefully will be gone soon.  I am taking Lovenox still, so my blood is thin.  The large bruise looks a lot better... but still several shades of ugly!! I'm trying to get my walking in, but it seems the more I walk the more exhauseted I am the rest of the day.  I know i'm still healing and it will take time, but I just seem to get sooo tired!  I went shopping the other day and bought a  pair of pants... size 16!!  Woohoo.... I haven't seen the teens in way too many years!!  I bought XL scrubs for work and the pants were too big!!!!  You mean I can now wear pants that don't have an X in the size????  I am loving this!!!  I'm rocking my tool like a rock star!!! 

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First Weigh In
on November 15, 2008 9:19 am

Well yesterday I took my disability paperwork to the doctors office and stepped on the scale..... down 3 pounds from my day before surgery weight.  So I lost the 6 pounds I gained post op, plus 3 more!!  I'm glad I saw a loss...but I still have a lot of swelling in my abdomen, especially on the left side.  I did talk to my surgeon real quick and showed her my bruises... she said she had no idea why I would have such a huge bruise on my lower abdomen.  Hmmm... I guess another one of life's mysteries!  I'm having pretty good luck with the blended soups and protein shakes.  I got creative and blended a peanut butter protein bar into one of my shakes with a little added milk... made for a delcious chocolate peanut butter shake with about 70 grms of protein!!  I sipped that all day long... mmmmm  I can live with that!! And I did get in 2 bottles of water today too... things are looking up!!

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Feeling Good Now!!
on November 13, 2008 1:11 pm
Well it is one week post op and I am finally feeling almost back to normal.  I left my brothers house on Tuesday afternoon and went to go pick up my kitties from work where they were being boarded.  They were all so happy to see me!!  They were all dirty and stinky from being in cages so I decided to bathe them... 5 of them!  It took me several hours as I had to take breaks in between, but I got them all done and we were on our way home.  I arrived at home to find a notice on our house saying there would be a housing authority inspection the next day (I rent).  So even though I wanted to rest... I had to get all our stuff unpacked and put away, laundry, and just general cleaning.  And if that wasn't enough, I felt the need to rearrange my bedroom!!  I went through a storange box and found about 10 pairs of jeans from about 10 years ago... Yaaaayyyy!!  They are all size 16 to 18 so they will fit me for now.  My 20's and 22's are way too big to wear now.  By the end of the night I was exhausted.  I thought I would be in a lot of pain the next morning, but surprisingly I felt great!  I didn't even take my pain meds till later in the morning after I had been moving around a bit and doing some last minute cleaning before the inspection.  The rest of the day I did laundry and caught up with an old friend on the phone.  I was on the phone when I was making rigatoni for my kids and didn't think twice about eating a rigatoni noodle to check for tenderness.  When I realized I had eaten it, I was like, oh crap!!  now what??  I was waiting for the consequences, but nothing happened!  Thank God!!  I do not tolerate the Isopure drinks very well... they just make me nauseous.  I am on a full liquid diet right now, which my doc said milk shake consistency soup was ok too.  So I've been blending soup with my proteind powder and eating that, as well as trying to get at least one protein shake in a day... and sip sip sip the water all day long.  So far I have had no digestive upset except for major gas production the first few days, but that seems to have subsided a bit.  I weighed myself yesterday and I am showing a weight gain of 6 lbs.  But I am really swollen still, and I was on IV fluids for 4 days.  My body did not take the surgery very well... I have bruises everywhere!!  I have posted the pics.... only because I know it won't be long before my body doesn't look like this anymore!!  Wooohoooo!! 
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My Story

I have had a weight problem since I was in grade school.  It has been a lifelong battle.  I have gone up and down in my weight over the years, but never getting down to a healthy weight.  My greatest success was at the age of 26.  I weighed about 300 pounds and realized that I had to do something when I went to try on some jeans and they were a size 26!!!  At that moment I decided I was not going to be fat anymore.  I went on an extreme diet of about 1000 calories a day and about 7 grams of fat.  I watched Susan Powter late at night and was inspired by her 'fat makes you fat' theory.  I started losing weight, started walking 4 miles a day, started dancing in my room late at night (would never do that in public!!) and lost about 60 lbs.  My confidence was up, my size down to 18.  I started country dancing and loved it.  I started running 4 miles a day, dancing about 5 hours a night (now in public!!) and had a social life for the first time in my life.  I got down to 200 lbs, but my extreme dieting and excersise had taken its toll on my body.  I developed heel spurs and shin splints, and had to stop running.  I also became pregnant around that time too... and stopped the dancing.  Boy... it didn't take long for the wieght to come back on!!  65 lbs in no time!  I went on to gain more, lose some, and gain more over the next few years.  That, on top of a very bad relationship, left me emotionally depressed and feeling like my life was over.  It has taken me a few years, but I am now ready to take my life back and start living again.  I have 2 children that keep me going and give me a reason to be healthy and live life to the fullest.  I feel like my life has a new beginning with a very happy ending!!!!