Rough day already :(

Apr 12, 2011

This is OT but causing me a great deal of stress & sadness right now & I need to vent.  After giving our 1 & only child - our 21 yr old son Josh - everything we possibly could to help him try to succeed in life he in return gave us lies, stole from us, has a HORRIBLE attitude whenever he's around us & treats us literally like crap - I finally went off on him last night & told him to GET OUT of our house.   I found out he's not been going to class & getting him to work is almost impossible even though he works MAYBE 16 hrs a week & only on the weekends.  He won't even clean up after himself around the house!  I and my husband both work full time & I also go to school 3/4 time on top of it so cleaning up after him in addition to this is almost impossible.  We're so disappointed & hoping & praying that making him move out is going to wake him up since we haven't been able to any other way. This is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do & it's killing me.   All any parent ever wants is the best for their child/children but I think we gave too much & now he expects it.  We really thought we were doing the best for him. 

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