I have my surgery date but my husband didnt seem happy

Nov 21, 2010

I was called on friday Nov 19,2010 they told me I was approved and we set my surgery date for Dec.17,2010 I was so happy. I called my kids and told them they cant wait for me to get it done. When my husband came home from work I told him....... to my dismay he just shruged it off. I keep asking him wasnt he happy for me and he said whatever. By this time I was ready to cry.I begged him to tell me what was wrong and then he told me that I was going to change and he thought that I would leave him. He said he would still be the same but I would be different. I tried to tell him yes I would be different but my feelings would still stay the same but that did little to comfort him. I dont know what to do. I know I need a good support system at home if I want my surgery to work. Does anyone have any ideas or anyone have to go through this before??

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