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My husband and I both felt very good about Dr. Boyce and the way he takes care of his patients before surgery. Now we are convinced that he treats all of his patients great!! He explains everything to you so that you understand. I would strongly recommend Dr. Boyce for the gastric bypass surgery. Sarah and Johnnie are both wonderful. They also will answer all of your questions and help you as much they can to make sure that you will succeed.
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  • Comment by LivinInGrace on 11/3/06 4:04 pm
    Hi Becky! I see we have surgery the same day!!! You will be in my prayers!!! I pray God will guide your surgeon and you will have a safe and speedy recovery! God Bless! Pamela
  • Comment by Linda T. on 11/2/06 6:54 am
    Becky I will try to remember you on the 6,my surgery day to. When I pray I will pray for all of us on that day. God bless you.
  • Comment by Cyndi M. on 10/31/06 7:20 pm
    ~~~~~~CONGRATULATION S ON YOUR UPCOMING SURGERY~~~~~~ (Everything in our lives happens for a purpose and that purpose is to prepare us) May God give you courage, strength and guidance throughout your new journey. You are about to embark on the most amazing transformation of you mind, body and soul. Your big day is almost here, this is the day, your new life will begin, I cant promise it will be easy, cant say it will be hard, I can say that with all the complications and everything I had to go through, It was well worth it. I have never felt better in yearsss, I’m off all medications, have sooooo much more energy. So if you hit a bump in the road, hang in there and remember it will alll be worth it in the long run. Sending Prayers your way that the Lord will guide your surgeon’s hands. May the guardian angels wrap their loving arms of protection around you during your surgery and recovery. Remember your not alone in this journey, many of us have been down this road, we are here to offer love and support. Looking forward to hearing from you on the loosing side. Huggs and Prayers Link to my profile 8-19-04 surgery date weight 297.5 height 5f 2 -115.5 weight losss http://www.obesityhe lp.com/member/faith4 ever/
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Went to the doctor's office today
on April 10, 2007 7:25 pm
Went to the doctor's office today- I am down 72 pounds!!  For the first time on my chart she wrote "malnourished".   I never thought I would be malnourished.  I mean "how can a fat girl be malnourished?".   I guess that's what I get for not taking my vitamins like I should be.  The doctor's office is supposed to call tomorrow if I have any abnormal results.  Let's hope they are all in line and I'll just start taking them like I should be.   She had me schedule my husband an appointment to get his levels checked as well since she said that they usually start changing after about 3-4 months from surgery.  
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Five Months Out!
on April 5, 2007 6:34 pm

Tomorrow I will be five months out from surgery!! I have worn out the battery on my scales.  I bought a regular scale today but my husband says its wrong.  I am going to take it back and buy a new battery tomorrow.  When I weighed on Saturday I was 187-- that's 70 pounds!!  My husband has lost about 110 pounds.  The last month has been slow on losing.  I have been exercising as much as I can but apparently it's not enough.  I still have 47 pounds to go to get to my goal.  I am down from a size 24 to a misses size 14.   I am addicted to shopping now.  It feels so good to be able to get into the smaller sizes!! 

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I MADE IT!!!
on February 17, 2007 9:31 am
I came back from vacation and was in ONEDERLAND!!!!  The scale today says 197- that's 60 pounds!!!!!  I had my surgery on 11/6/06.  My husband is now down 95 pounds and had his on 11/20/06.  Woohooh!!  I have not been this low in weight since junior high.  What a feeling!!! 

We went on vacation to Florida last week for a few days.  We felt like we needed a mini-vacation since our surgery.  We decided we would go to Disney for a few days while we were there. My husband warned me that we probably would not get to go on many rides due to him still being pretty big.  I told him I thought he would be surprised.  He got on the Test Track at Epcot and smiled from ear to ear when he saw how far down the bar came.  Needless to say I think we rode every ride we could!! I was excited about the difference in the airplane seats. My husband could actually get the belt fastened easily and had to pull it tighter.  I was amazed at how much room I had in the seat.  

I purchased the book Before & After Weight Loss Surgery by Susan Maria Leach-- she states her motto is "Nothing tastes as good as thin feels".  I still have about 60 more pounds to go before I am at what I want my goal to be but I strongly agree with her.  I went into a plus size clothing store while we were on vacation and the only thing that fit me was the shoes!!!  What a feeling!!!! 

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Just a Few More Pounds
on January 24, 2007 7:32 pm
Just an update--- I am now down 51 pounds and my husband is down 78 pounds.  Six more pounds and I'll be in ONEDERLAND!!!!!  Wooohoooh!!! Getting ready to take a vacation to Florida-- we should actually be able to fit on the rides at the Disney parks now!! 
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Ten Weeks Out For Me (Eight Weeks for My Husband)
on January 14, 2007 11:35 am

I am down 47 pounds and have been stuck this week.  My husband is down 75 pounds.  I can't believe it!! We are struggling through getting all of our protein in.  We have been able to go out to eat with our friends and just watch what we eat.  We went to eat at Ruby Tuesdays on Friday night.  We ordered a grilled chicken breast which came with two sides.  We got two orders of the creamy mashed cauliflower since it had less carbs and was the most like pureed food.  We couldn't even eat half of our half of chicken breast or half of the side order.  The waiter looked at us funny when we asked for a to go box.  He looked at us and said "Do you want dessert?".  My husband explained that we had had surgery and he then understood.  Before the surgery we could have each eaten the whole meal and probably at least split a dessert.  It is so different now but we both feel so much better.  I have been fixing some chinese food which follows all of the low carb-low fat- and high protein. My husband still isn't that big on fish or any type of seafood.  I got some different types of fish to try this week so maybe we can at least find one that he likes.  We are taking dance lessons on Friday nights which is giving us some exercise.  We may be picking up another type of dance on Wednesdays but we'll see.  We also are going to try to start going to the gym so we can do water aerobics or just swim.  We have heard that this makes the weight fall off faster. 

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My Story

My husband and I decided that we both needed to have the gastric bypass surgery to help us with our weight loss battle.  We had saw a physician about 4 years ago about having the lap band done but after paying for a consultation out of pocket and our insurance not approving either one of us at that time we decided we would just try to watch what we ate.  Guess what it didn't work.  We gained more weight and continued to eat the wrong foods.

In November of 2004 I finally decided to go to the doctor to see about my gallbladder.  I had been suffering with attacks for about a year but just did not want to have surgery.  When I went to the doctor she ordered an ultrasound.  They called me back right away and not only did I have gallstones but they had also found something on my right kidney. They also had decided to put me on blood pressure medicine and confirmed that I was now officially a diabetic.  I had to go back and have CT scan and they found a tumor on my right kidney.  I then had to go see a nephrologist he said that my kidney would have to come out because he was almost positive it was malignant.  On November 19th they removed both my gallbladder and right kidney laparoscopically (with hand assist for the kidney).   The tumor did turn out to be renal cell carcinoma but luckily it was all contained inside the kidney.  No chemo or radiation just follow up scans for the next five years will hopefully do the trick!!

After trying to lose more weight due to my diabetes and one kidney with no luck, we once again decided we need to take some type of action.  In April of 2006 we attended a seminar of Dr. Boyce's.  Dr. Boyce seemed very concerned about the patient's risks after the surgery and had several steps in place to try to help avoid any complications.  We did a lot of research on the Internet and talked to several patients who had already had the gastric bypass surgery.  Everyone who had their procedure performed by Dr. Boyce only had good things to say.  We decided to go ahead and pursue trying to get approved for the gastric bypass.

We had all of our paperwork collected from our family physician, Dr. Kelly Baker, who wrote an awesome letter for the insurance company. I wanted to go first because I knew I would back out if anything went wrong with my husband's surgery.  Everything was submitted to BCBS of Texas and they approved my surgery within about a week.  I couldn't believe it!! My husband's info was then submitted, it took them a little longer to decide on his but eventually he was approved as well.   We decided we would wait until November to have the surgery.   

I had my surgery on 11/6/06 by Dr. Stephen Boyce in Knoxville, Tennessee.  Luckily, I came through the surgery with flying colors.  I was able to have my RNY laparoscopically with just a JP drain in.  I had one dose of pain medicine the night of surgery for a low grade fever.  Other than that one dose, I did not have to have any pain meds.  I stayed in the hospital for three days and then got to go home.  Once at home, it was a little easier trying to get all of the fluids in and working on the protein. 

I had a few days where I have craved different foods like a big cheeseburger!!  I also had a few days where I was ready to suck the cheese sauce off of some macaroni and cheese.  The good thing is I am not hungry at all. Most things don't sound good.  I went to Quizno's with my husband one day and just couldn't sit in there with him.  With all of the smells, pictures of their food, and his sandwich sitting very close to me I had to go outside.

After drinking the protein drinks for two weeks I was starting to get burnt out really bad.  I ordered some liquid whey protein from IDS which had 42 grams of protein for 3 ounces.  I thought that I could certainly drink 1 ounce of something that didn't taste good versus 8 ounces. WRONG!!  I would have been able to split this protein up into three different times throughout the day to get most of my protein in.  However, when it came it tasted so bad.  I managed to get one vial down and the rest of it is sitting in the pantry.  I went to GNC and got the Amplify (chocolate mint).  You can mix this with 8 ounces of skim milk and get about 28 grams of protein.  It tastes wonderful!! You can heat it up and drink it like a hot chocolate or freeze it and it's like mint chocolate ice cream!! 

11/20/06--- My husband's big day!!!! He was really nervous but ready to get things started.   He did really well and looked good after surgery.  He started having a lot of pain.  I hate it that he did not come through as well as me.

11/21/06-  My husband was having trouble getting the gas that they use during the laparoscopic surgery out.  He was having a lot of pain due to that.   I go for my first post op visit tomorrow, can't wait to see how much I have lost. 

 

 


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