KiaSunRay
Shrinking Violet
Jun 11, 2010
A co-worker attempted to comment on my weight loss a few weeks ago and refered to me as a "shrinking violet". Not only does she not know what the phrase means, but she failed miserably at paying a compliment. When in doubt, keep your mouth shut.The attention I receive makes me uncomfortable. I've never been an attention seeker and I'm certainly not interested in doing so this stage in my life. I enjoy my weight loss tremendously but I dont want it to be the topic of every conversation i'm engaged in: "What's your secret?!?!" "I should work out with you!" I get so sick of hearing it! I could tell what I did or what to do and they still wouldn't have the balls to do it. I barely acknowledge it any more. There are so many more dimensions to me other than weight; someday someone will wake up and recognize it.
I'm a size 16 now and have many more clothing options to choose from. Again, I'm enjoying it but I'm still not enamoured with the attention it brings. I do dress different to a degree; I'm not confined to the drab colors relegated for a size 32. I can wear heels semi-comfortably again; however, my basics as far as modesty and propriety haven't changed. I've even considered just wearing "plain" clothes to work so I can just...be.
I'm looking for a new job. Not only because of the extra attention...but I'm sorely in need of the extra cash to go back to school. I kinda feel bad since I really like my boss but there aren't any opportunities for me. The salary I earn has taken me as far as it can in regards to the goals I've set. I have to go to the next level in my life and need the extra oomph to get there. And I can get there.
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About Me
Washington, DC
Location
35.5
BMI
Surgery
06/16/2009
Surgery Date
Sep 22, 2008
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