It makes them change...

Jul 30, 2010

Hey Fam...I was reading through a friends blog and I thought it would be a good idea to post my latest experience.....

Many of you know that following my surgery, I reunited with my fiance after a 4 1/2 year split.  Things have been great up until recently. Prior to my weight loss I was a shopping whore (that's right, I said it).  Nordstroms, Macy's, Sack's, TJMAXX, etc.   Now that I'm down to a size 10, I love shopping even more. With this awesome work schedule (2 1/2 days) I'm able to spend more time at the mall; in fact, I can stay there at least 5 hours on any given day. So anyway, 2 weeks ago I was at the mall and misplaced my cell phone.  By the time I found it, I realized that my BF had been calling.  I returned the call and he was livid.."where you been, who you been with, what you been doing...yada yada yada."  We worked it out, but I noticed that he's starting to act jealous.  So this week, I go to the gym for a few hrs and then decide to go to the mall (yeah, I was sweaty).  So I go and after a few hours there, I realize that my phone hasn't rung.  I check it and it's dead.  I go back to the car and charge the phone (takes a few mins) and I call him.  What do you know...he's ranting and raving again...then he hits me with the big one......"IF YOU'RE SEEING SOMEONE, LET ME KNOW SO I CAN MOVE ON!"  LOL, right?  Me, big, fat, me?  And then suddenly I realize that I'm not that person anymore and my BF realizes that.  My weight loss has not only changed me and my life; but it makes them change as well.  Anyone else experiencing the same thing? 

Let a sista know

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