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be able to cross my legs

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to wipe my butt without cutting off my air supply!

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To get below 300 pounds

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take a shower and have the towel wrap all around me!

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become the steamy hot sex kitten i am on the inside

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Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by Naes Wls J. on 7/24/03 10:24 am
    Best wishes to you on getting through your wls approval process, may your wait be a short one and a approved one, try to hang in there and stay focused and POSITIVE. take care~*~Hugs~*~
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Hello, everyone. In my research, I have noticed few recent profiles detailing the DS approval and surgery process. To that end, I would like to share my exprience to help out others starting their WLS research process. I will do my best to chronicle my experiences.
 
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Almost a year Update
on February 8, 2012 8:45 am
It has been almost a year since my Duodenal Switch surgery - time for a quick update!

The good:
I have lost 143 lbs and now weigh 234!
I have not been at this weight since high school
I now fit in any chair, movie theatre and airplane seat. Fears of not fitting are gone!
I now naturally, comfortably and gracefully cross my legs - something I have *never* done!
I can now wear high heals no more painfully than flats. I wore some real skyscraper shoes the other day no problem at all!
I can eat a small quantity of whatever I want to
I determine what I will eat based on nutrition (protein content) and the effect it will have on my body (killer gas if too many carbs)
My cholestorol level is now excellent

Not as good:
Losing weight has opened my eyes to the degree of prejudice against obese individuals
This year I won multiple awards for my performance. Would this have happened if I was still super morbidly obsese? not sure.
I had multiple surgical complications (leak and a large hernia at top of my abdomen). At the end of the day I look like I am 6 months pregnant with an alien baby.
My arthritic pain (knees, back, neck) have not yet improved as a result of weight loss.
A recent blood pressure test revealed my bp is on the high side again. I have not eliminated BP meds.
I had open surgery and my long ropey and unattractive scar are bothersome to me. I should have insisted on laparoscopic surgery.

Overall
I am doing well and have bright prospects for the future. My weight loss seems to happen in spurts... I stay the same for 3 weeks then *poof* I have lost 10 lbs. I hope to still lose at least 50 lbs. Even this amount would be a miracle and a gift. In fact, it is a gift to say I am hoping to lose 50. I don't remember a time when I had less than 100 to lose!
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5 month 2 week update
on August 9, 2011 6:32 am
The last few months have been a whirlwind at both home and work.

Exciting:
I have lost 103 lbs putting me at 274
BMI is down from 56 Super Morbidly Obese to 40 Morbidly Obese
I definitely notice the difference in my body comfort and mobility.
It is much easier to do things like put on my socks or even walk around the mall for a few hours.
Almost everything in my closet fits

Not as exciting:
I am not yet at a weight that is a WOW for me. In the past, I maintained a weight right around this range off and on. I know more loss is coming, but it is much slower than it was at first
I am starting to experience some of the usual "loser's bench" challenges (where did my boobs go? OMG I am losing SO much hair!)


I am in general good health with improved blood pressure. I do lack energy sometimes so I have kicked up my protein and vitamin regime over the last few weeks.

In other news, my husband had VSG surgery w/Dr. Cirangle in April and is firmly planted on the loser's bench with me. Yay! It's so great to have a pal do this with me. We are also a very cheap date! Between the two of us, we eat less than 1 person.

Til next time - Cheers!
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Returning to work next week - Anxious!
on April 1, 2011 8:07 am
I am scheduled to return to work next week. I am somewhat anxious about this. I am still not fully recovered after all. My stamina is much lower than I would like it to be. I went to the mall with my husband last week and walked only about one quarter of the way through the corridor and had to sit down. I decided to leave the mall after walking only about half of it because I was so tired! This is not like me. Normally I am a super trooper and my friends regardless of size or fitness level complain because I walk their feet off.

In addition, I am still so much more tired than normal. Even if I sleep through the night, I still fight off napping during the day and often don't win.

My job is very demanding - I normally manage over 150 people. I don't feel like I am ready to face it yet. Luckilly, I won't have a team to manage upon my immediate return but I am sure I will be expected to quickly get from place to place, give lectures, attend long meetings etc...
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Leak Healed! So Happy!
on March 29, 2011 11:52 am
On Friday, exactly 30 days after my surgery, I had an abdominal CT Scan to check to see if my leak is healed.  Great news, the leak is gone! Dr Keshishian decided on the CT rather than another upper GI because he was also looking for infection since I had been re-admitted to the hospital for a high fever (up to 104) and extreme nausea. When admitted, he had my picc line removed as he expected it was the culprit.

After a short 1 day stay, I was able to control my fever with Tylenol and was pronounced leak free!

So far, this does not seem real to me. I am able to drink, eat for the first time in 22 days. Nothing I have tried yet has settled wrong. Also, with no drains and no ivs attached to me, I almost feel like a "normal" person who might be capable of recovering. I feel better and better each day.

I want to send a big thank you to those of you who were pulling for me and sending me your prayers and well-wishes. I feel like without your support, that leak might just still be there and I am SO happy it's not!
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A little bit of good news!
on March 18, 2011 12:03 pm
I am pleased to share that I have some good news.

I went to see Dr. Keshishian today and he took out my drains! YAY! I feel so free without those things hanging down from me. He swore it would not hurt and I am glad he told me that because I was very nervous about it and it helped me make it through it.
The first one felt just really "weird", like a giant worm wiggling through my insides. The second one hurt... bad! At first, he said he was going to leave the second one in but just adjust it, but I guess he changed his mind when he saw it was completely empty and I was yelling and complaining so much he just pulled it out.

My fever went away and he didn't think the rash on my legs was anything to worry about. He did tell me no more tape on my dressings and gave me some towels to wear over the gauze and under the binder (much more comfortable)!

He said I will need to have another upper GI study next Friday and we will decide if I can stop the TPN and eat at that time. The best part about this is that I will have the upper GI somewhere in Orange County rather than having to go all the way to Glendale again - YAY!

For the first time in a few days I feel a little hopeful and I smiled.

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My Story

Here is a copy of the letter I was required to submit for insurance approval:

To Whom It May Concern:        

 

         My name is XXXXXXXXX, and I am an Anthem Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO member. I'm a 35 year-old Married executive working for a Fortune 5 company in the telecommunications industry. I live in Anaheim, CA and life would be pretty good if it weren't for my declining health problems due to super morbid obesity.

         I have struggled with excessive weight problems since age 5. For more than 30 years, I have tried every diet, health plan, eating philosophy, and life change suggested by doctors, exercise and healthcare professionals. I, followed many weight loss plans through for months, sometimes, more than a year. I would always lose weight, sometimes, large amounts (70+ lbs). But each time, I regained the weight I lost and more.

         My motivation to lose my excess weight has always been to get healthy, prevent medical problems and extend my life. As a younger person when I failed at dieting, it didn't seem too bad and life went on. I always "had time" and would soon try again. Now, I am 36 and obesity-related health problems are creeping into my life.

         I have high blood pressure, and high cholesterol. I have chronic pain in my back, knees, ankles and feet from my excessive weight. I am less mobile than I was in prior years. When I get out of a chair, rise from the commode or take the stairs, I find myself supporting my weight with my arms until my legs are extended. I have developed varicose veins in my legs and struggle with peripheral swelling.

         My mother, a type II Diabetic died from complications of Obesity and type II Diabetes in 2008 at age 63. She had completely lost mobility, had rapidly deteriorating eyesight, sleep apnea and multiple amputations of her fingers and toes due to poor healing abilities, a Diabetes complication. A few months prior to her death, she was on oxygen around the clock. Throughout my mother’s life, I watched her yo-yo diet with great determination and limited success. At her untimely passing, she had been Morbidly obese for many years but at my age, she was in better physical condition that I am now.

         This, in conjunction to family medical history, was my "wake up call." Other family members display a similar medical history. My father had high blood pressure and high cholesterol, heart disease and type II Diabetes. He had a massive heart attack and heart bypass surgery at age 60. His mother, both of my mother’s parents and several of her siblings suffered from Diabetes.

         I began to research obesity to understand this disease I suffer from. I learned there are different stages of Obesity based on Body Mass Index (BMI): Obese, Morbidly Obese, and BMI of 45+ is Super Morbidly Obese. My BMI at 53 places me in the highest risk Super Morbidly Obese category. A high BMI combined with high blood pressure and cholesterol and a family history of heart disease and diabetes, makes premature death just a matter of time.

         My risk of heart failure and Diabetes are far greater than a person with an average BMI.  In research I learned being Super Morbidly Obese is an immediate threat to my life. I also found the National Institute of Health (NIH) has recognized that only 2% of people who accomplish weight loss will keep it off for a period longer than five years. The NIH has published that surgery is the only permanent solution to keep weight off and avoid death and disease associated with obesity. After reviewing my 30-year diet history, surgery is the only permanent solution to prolong my life.

         The surgery I am requesting is medically necessary to aid in prevention of multiple diseases that would lead to more extreme medical expenses. I need to permanently lose weight to greatly reduce the high risk of premature death, and eliminate my existing co-morbidities.

         Death is inevitable. However, I would like to live for more than 2-5 years and in a state of declining health. I would rather have this surgery and enjoy 30+ years of happier health!

         Available literature and my surgeon advise this surgery could improve and eliminate both my high blood pressure and cholesterol and orthopedic pain eliminating the need for other surgeries and medications. The evidence suggests it is cost-effective to have this surgery rather than paying for multiple medications and surgeries down the road.

         Approving this surgery will save my life, reduce your cost for my medical needs over the coming years, and will give me a quality of life I have never known. My family and I thank you for supporting us in this endeavor.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

XXXXXXXXX

 

Attached: history of weight loss attempts

 


History of Weight Loss Attempts:

Age

Program

lb loss

start weight

end weight

age 5

very low calorie diet (VLCD)

25 lbs

90

65

age 16

very low calorie diet

90 lbs

280

190

age 22

Jenny Craig

60 lbs

330

270

age 24

Reduced calorie/exercise

60 lbs

340

280

age 26

Very low fat

70 lbs

350

318

age 27

Phentermine

95 lbs

375

280

age 31

Meridia

60 lbs

330

290

age 33

Weight Watchers

30 lbs

310

280

age 34

Medifast/VLCD/Phentermine

50 lbs

330

280