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  • Comment by Kimberly Novak on 9/18/07 5:59 am
    Wishing you all the best as you begin your life changing journey~~Kim
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    Wednesday is your day! Just remember you are on the journey of a lifetime. Try to enjoy every minute. It may sound weird now, but know that you are cared for and prayed for here, and all too soon this will be but a memory and you will be an inspiration to someone else. I am waiting for you on the losers' bench!
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    You are about to embark on the journey that saves your life . A journey that is not easy .. and will take you places you could never have dreamed. Never be ashamed of your decision , never be scared to fail , as tommorow is another day . Always know that it is YOU , that this is for .. and that YOU matter . I wish you nothing but success . So much respect for taking a stand against Obesity . Way to go . May the Lord bless and keep you safe .. and we WILL see you on the loosing side soon . Much love .. Tink
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11 Months -- Wow
on August 21, 2008 8:00 am
I am not sure where the time has gone.  It just occurred to me that my 11 month anniversary was two days ago.  How time flies when you are having fun!  ; )

The weight loss has slowed so much, it's amazing.  I have done nothing different, so I guess it's my body deciding to find where it needs to be.  It is frustrating, especially the fluctuations up and down, but as long as I know that I am doing what I need to do, I think it is just a matter of getting used to it.  I went through a week where I lost like 4 lbs that week, then in the last couple of days I am up 4 lbs and another 2!  AGH!  I have a feeling it is because I haven't been very good at getting in my fluids these last few days, so I am pushing BIG TIME today, and will make sure I don't slack off again.  I am still keeping track on fitday of what I am taking in, the exercise I am doing, etc.  so I know there haven't been any issues there.

I did the "cottage cheese" test yesterday to get an idea of the size of my pouch.  First, I have to say, I HATE cottage cheese....blech!  BUT in the interest of knowledge, I did it.  It appears my pouch holds about 3 oz., so that is a good thing.  My guess is that it holds a little more, but that is just because I was ready to quit as soon as I had a feeling of fullness because I hate cottage cheese so much, but even if it is 4 oz., that is a good size.  I am happy about it. 

One issue I have been dealing with is lethargy.  It seems to happen the most mid-afternoon...I just drag.  I take all of my supplements religiously, but I think I may have an issue with my iron because I have a hard time finding a time to take it when calcium and/or dairy products don't interfere.  My nutritionist suggested taking it right before bed, so that is what I am trying for.  I hope it helps.  I am due to go in to get my labs done in the next two weeks, so that should shed some light on it. 

I was hoping to be at my personal goal by the time of my one year anniversary, but I don't think I am going to make it.  So, now I am hoping to make my surgeon's goal by then -- if I can get this water weight off and another 2 lbs., I will be there.  I have about three weeks to do it...keeping my fingers crossed!

An interesting thing that have been happening, with increasing frequency:  people not recognizing me.  It is so funny.  These aren't casual acquaintances -- these are people I have known over the years, one of which used to be my neighbor across the street.  In each case, they didn't have any idea who they were talking to -- in two of the cases, when I showed up at their front door, they thought I was selling something, and it took some convincing that it really was me!  The first time it happened, I thought it was a freak event.  Then, it happened again, and again -- to this point, it has happened 8 or 9 times in a little over a month.  People can't believe it is me -- I don't see the change(s) like others do, evidently.  I laugh about it, because it strikes me as funny -- but when I sit and think about it, it makes me realize that I really do look different.  I looked at my "before" pictures the other day, and I have to admit -- there are some changes!  The biggest changes aren't just appearance...but how I feel.  I am working out 3-5 days a week (circuit training and walking), and can't believe how much I miss it if I don't do it.  I am walking multiple miles a week, increasing all of the time, up and down hills that I couldn't even think of making this time last year.  It's just amazing.  :)

All in all, what a ride!  This time last year, I was starting on the pre-op workups...again, where has the time gone? 



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10 Months And Counting
on July 29, 2008 8:32 pm
My 10 month anniversary (aka surgiversary) was on the 19th -- I can't believe I am looking at a year in just two months.  It's just amazing.  Where has the time gone?

I am stuck again weight-wise.  Up and down with the same two pounds for the last week and a half.  Nothing has changed.  I have even started varying the number of calories, carbs, protein each day to make sure I am not in the starvation mode...and I just keep bumping up and down those two pounds.  I think my body is trying to find its set point -- I just have to let it know that we are not done yet -- another 26 lbs. to go if I have my way.  Even though Dr. Tran said that I just needed to get under 200 lbs., I am determined to get to 180 lbs., and would LOVE to get there by my 1st year anniversary (yeah, I know, 180 sounds like a lot, but I am 5'9" tall).  So...I keep going to the gym, tracking my food, measuring, ensuring I get protein in, etc. etc. etc.  I am not upset about it, I know my body is going through a lot and needs to adjust.  I have come to appreciate the scale moving down, even if it is 1/2 lb.!!!

I haven't been sleeping well, and my energy level is really low these days.  I have to start getting to bed earlier in the night, and I have started taking an Acai supplement, which is supposed to help with the energy level...I am keeping my fingers crossed.

It is getting to be that time again to take pictures, so I will try to get that done this week.  All of the ones I had taken disappeared on me last week when my computer went crazy and my backup didn't back up my pictures...all gone.  :(  So, I am going to really have to rely on what I have posted on this site.

Off to bed....

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Temptations
on July 4, 2008 7:50 pm
I had my first real experience with CRAVINGS today -- and it has been a struggle, to say the least. It is the 4th of July, big BBQ time, and I have had cravings for the foods that come with it -- especially a cheeseburger from the grill...you know...nice fresh hamburger bun, lettuce, tomato, ketchup....mmmm.  Haha  I have resisted, but have allowed myself to have a few tastes of some things:  Boston baked beans, a forkful of pasta salad (made with whole grain pasta and light mayonnaise) and watermelon.  I am hoping that will take care of me!  Tomorrow is another day -- and I have planned for it.  I bought some ground turkey breast (lower in fat than the regular) to make a burger, sugar free ketchup and salad mix, Bountiful dressing and shredded cheese...so I should be in business.

I am glad I handled it well -- I am learning that there are some things that are a weakness for me that I hadn't anticipated, because they weren't an issue for me in the past, i.e., nuts.  I love the crunchiness...but I have to restrict myself...to the point where I am not buying any more!  Out of sight, out of mind.

Happy 4th!

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Some WOW Moments
on June 15, 2008 3:36 pm
My husband and I snuck away this weekend for a quiet time together -- life has been so nuts of late, it was desperately needed.  While away, I had some "Wow!" moments I thought I would put down on here.

1.  I played golf again after not playing in about 3 years.  I was afraid it was going to be like the last time we did where I was winded, not able to move right, etc.  NOT THE CASE.  I walked and walked and walked without even feeling like I was winded.  I was able to move easily swinging the clubs, chased the balls (A LOT!), hopped in and out of the cart like it was nothing...it was amazing.

2.  When I was getting my massage, I was able to put on the robe without them having to search for a larger one and/or me being self conscious about it being so tight.  It easily fit, in fact, I had to wrap it quite a bit! 

3.  I wasn't self conscious about getting the massage.  I have avoided them for the most part because of the weight...opting for a facial or something easier like that.  This weekend...hot stone massage...and it was AWESOME.

4.  I was able to buy and wear a very fitted dress to the formal dinner we had on Saturday night, and FELT great in it.  I can't remember the last time I wore a dress, let alone one that was so form fitting.  It was AMAZING.

5.  I moved around the resort looking...dare I say it?...like a normal person.  I wore skimmers (longer shorts) with sleeveless tops and didn't feel out of place at all. 

6.  I was able to eat a filet mignon!!!  The restaurant on Saturday night didn't have a lot of choices that I would normally be able to pick from.  So, I asked the waiter what would be more tender...the filet or the lamb.  He said the filet, and he was right on!!!  It melted in my mouth...no issues with anything getting stuck or me not being able to handle it.  I was so happy.  Meats have been touchy for me.

7.  Last, but not least, I found myself sitting and crossing my legs automatically.  Not hard to do at all....it was just so natural.  Unreal.

So...a few Wows that showed me that I am moving in the right direction. 

Tanny
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Weigh In & Measurements
on May 28, 2008 4:30 pm
I have been using the new equipment at the gym, which acts as a personal trainer..adjusts according to how much progress you have made, etc. -- been doing this for about a week now.  It is awesome!  I am really getting a workout now.  When I started with it, I had to be weighed, measured, blood pressure taken, etc.  So, today, when I was there, I asked if they could put the information in the computer and see how much things have changed since late January, the last time I had it done.  The results are awesome:

Bust            -2.50"         Total since late Oct 07:  -5.25"
Waist          -4.20"                                            -9.50"
Abdomen    -6.00"                                          -13.00"
Hips            -8.50"                                          -16.00"
Thighs        -8.00" ea.                                     -34.00"
Arms:         -4.00" ea.                                     -15.00"

Total:        -45.20*                                      **-92.75"


*Between 1/25-5/21/08

**Between 10/25/07-5/21/08

Between 1/25/08-5/21/08 I lost 5.90% body fat.

Between 1/25/08-5/21/08 I lost 31.39 body fat pounds.

I will be interested in seeing how this changes with the new equipment and the increased exercise (from 3-5 days per week). 

In the meantime, "woo hoo!"

Aerobics
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To say I have struggled with my weight all of my life would be an understatement.  In middle school the doctor put me on diet pills (back in "the day"), and I got the weight off...managed to keep it off through high school, college and even into my late 20s.  Once I hit my 30s, the struggle began again...I went on Weight Watchers, joined Jenny Craig, LA Weightloss, did the Cambridge Diet, the South Beach Diet, Atkins...low carb, high carb, high protein, cabbage....the list goes on and on.  I would lose weight, but it would come back on and then some.  So here I am, 48 years old and the highest weight I have ever been in my life.  

While I am blessed with a great husband, great family and friends, who love me no matter what, the time has come for me to do something for ME...I want to be able to grow old with my husband, watch my kids get married and have kids of their own...I want to play tennis again, feel comfortable in a bathing suit, sit comfortably in an airline seat...so many things.

So here I am....ready to take this huge step towards a "new me"....a HEALTHIER me.  

 


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