Michelle,
I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. First of all, it is normal to feel weak and tired. I had my open rny about 3 weeks ago and my first 2 1/2 weeks were rough. I still feel like I could nap in the afternoons. Also you are going thru alot of stress with your boyfriend. That is not good for you and he is a jerk to do this too you when you come home from the surgery especially him having the surgery. Well guess what girl, you need to break away because he doesnt deserve you and spend the next year focusing on yourself. You will be soooo much happier. If you need to chat, just drop me a line!!!!