my name is khalid benammar first of all i am so sorry for your loss i want you to know i read your wifes story and it made me sad my wife she was going to do the same surgary for me reading your wifes story i desided it was not the right thing for her to do so i want you to know your wife shes in heaven because she saved my wife so i am sorry for your loss if you need to speak with me please call me at this number #347-512-0377 or home#718-975-2395