Welcome to a fantastic voyage...it is life changing and remarkable...there will be ups and there will be downs, but so far I have found it to be worth every minute of it. I hope you not only pop in on the California Board, but also the Singles Board. Sure the women out number the guys on that board, but it is still a good time. I am a random poster, but if you ever need an ear to bend or a shoulder to lean on feel free to email me. Take Care