How to go out of network?

Aetna is denying the surgery for my sister with the same surgeon I had (who is out of network). They say there is 3 general surgeons in network who can do the surgery. SCARY. This is major surgery and she wants the BEST. Any ideas how we can get Aetna to approve for out of network?

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