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Topic: RE: Need Advice Again
Tracy,
I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone; its so frustrating when we have really tough days, and turning to what we've known to work for comfort before (i.e. food) is like second nature to us and a hard habit to break. Also, you sound like you have been very busy, are you getting your protein in? your vitamins?
You are NOT done losing, sweetie. You just take a deep breath, up your water intake and see if you are getting the much needed protein...could it be that time of month when we all gain a bit also?
Take some time out for YOU...get a manicure, go to a book store and treat yourself to one of those non-fat drinks while you browse thru the bookstore and just remember you look wonderful, you are a great person, and this tool has not failed you!!!! We're here for ya and we believe in you!
Good luck to you and hope you have a stress-free holiday
Donna

Topic: Need Advice Again
I have been going through a rough couple of weeks. Stress and stuff. Point being, I have gained 5 pounds. Didn't think it was possible, but I did.
The stress I was going through is gone and I am in dire need of support to combat my gain.
I will go back to loosing won't I?!
I don't want to ruin all I have gone through. Please HELP!
I am scared!
Tracy
1/30/04
240/160




Topic: Hello!
Hi my fellow Januaryer's! It's been a long time (too long) since I've posted. My job has gotten busier, as has my life! Hope all is well with everyone! I've been doing pretty good. I am eating more and for the last couple of weeks have been eating way too many carbs! I've got to get back in the swing of things. I'm still excerising
at least 2 - 3 times a week, with the exception of last week, I didn't excerise at all! I'm down 119 lbs. Had surgery on 1/21/04 started at 248 and am down to 129 lbs. only 5 more to get to goal; which will probably take forever! I'm wearing any where from a size 8 to a 4 (most 8's are too big).
I feel pretty good
with the exception of my baggie skin on my belly, arms and legs! My breast are very saggy ( I went from a 44DD to a 36C and I think I could actually fit into a 34B). I would really like to have surgery on my arms, tummy, and breast. I do have a lot of back pain and am wondering if it's contributed to the excess tummy skin.
Well, gotta run! Hope all is well with everyone. Wishing you all a very Happy Thanksgiving! We all should be thankful for our new lives! I know I am.
Best of luck
to all of you on your continued WLS journey!
Kimberley
248/236/129/124
Soon I hope!






Topic: take your STOMACHE MEDS...OR....??!!!
DR. SINGH SAVED MY LIFE..!!!! On Oct 4th I woke up @ 2:30 am double over in sever AGONY.I paced the floor it hurt to move, breath, walk, talk...my BF told me not to go too work, but stubborn me,I went anyway. I crawled to work, @ 11am I couldn't stand it anymore...MY sister picked me up & took me too Albany MED.I was admiteed too the ER.THEY told me it was a uti, then PID, THey finally took for a cat scan of my tummy. THey told me I had fluid in my abdomin & that I had a ruptured appendix. THEY told me a resident DOC was going to preform exploritory surgey,I'd be cut from breast bone to pelvic bone. I said I DON"T F*%KING think so, I want DR. SINGH. THey said he was NOT on call, I said call him. THEY told me they could not reach him & I was going to die if I didn't hurry up & say yes to this surgery.I said.."WEll I guess I'm going to die, I will only let DR. SINGH touch me" they then said they would put me in the hosp for 3 days on super anti biotics until DR. SINGH could be gotten ahold of. I said FINE! THis was @ noon.AT 11pm DR. Singh was in my room telling me he wasn't sure what was wrong with me BUT he would do his best to help me.I had to sign a wavier stating I knew I could end up with a colostomy. GULP!!...2 and 1/2 hours later...I was out of surgery. When I woke up The first thing I did was look for the colostomy bag..........NO BAG...OMG thank you soooooo much!! Dr. Singh told my family I had ruptured an ULCER in my juejenal connection to my pouch. I had STOPPED taken my prevacid...BAD IDEA FOLKS...LOL.I almost died.I am very lucky and very thankful too be here.THANK YOU DR. SINGH for saving my life!!!!!!!!!!!!
ANG~
275/153/140?
Topic: RE: I am OVERWEIGHT!!!!
Congratulations Kris!
Keep up the good work!
Kimberley
248/129/124
Someday I hope!




Topic: RE: Bad News... OT
Losing a job can be devastating, but it can open up new avenues too. I've been released twice when companies I worked for were sold to larger corporations. I am an accountant and the new companies both had an accountant at the home office. I was not willing to relocate when the offer was made.
I took some time off to travel both times then hit the want ads and soon had a job which I enjoyed until it happened again. All this led to my working for the best company I've ever worked for in my life. Now if they just don't decide to sell for a few years I will retire a happy person.
You will find a better company to work for if you keep a good attitude. Another job is around the corner. Then you can get a new apartment, a new cat and be happy. Hope it happens soon.
Topic: RE: Sabotaging myself! Help!
Hi Rhen,
I guess the ONLY thing we can do is ask ourselves did we put our bodies thru all this to only end up obese again. That's it...bottom line. It is so hard, because all the psychological issues that made us overweight have not been dealt with. I believe counseling would do me a world of good, and I'm seriously going to check into it. I don't eat because I'm hungry, never have. I eat out of boredom, sadness, happiness...you name it. I keep telling myself that I have never felt better about myself, I have never enjoyed shopping as much or been able to just plain enjoy life. Only we can do this for ourselves. I'm going to put up my "before" picture of myself on my refrigerator today.
If that doesn't do it, I don't know what will!
Good luck to you, we can do this!
Kim R/az

Topic: RE: Bad News... OT
Barbie
It angers me to no end when people who know nothing about Bipolar Disorder act like that! I have watched my mother be discrimated against, avoided by so-called normal people, and treated like dirt because of her condition. She is the most creative, sensitive amazing person i know. She is a WONDERFUL woman who just happens to be bipolar, for over 30 years now. Your strength and your skills will get you thru this difficult time. Im glad you are retaining an attorney. Too many ignorant people who know nothing about Bipolar treats those who do have it like some sort of crazy person who should be ashamed and its pathetic. Best of luck to you!!! Im rooting for you all the way and hope you get a job that pays twice what those jerks did!!!
Donna
Topic: Bad News... OT
Hey gang,
Ya know that new job that I was talking about recently? The one that I loved, got to travel and was made for me? The one that I gave up my apartment, cats and life? Yeah, that one. I was fired last week. For a totally bogus reason, that just HAPPENED to show up after I asked for a 30 min accomodation in my start time ON OCCASION for consideration of my bipolar medication. Now why do you think I really got fired?
If you guessed discrimination you guessed right! I am retaining an attorney tomorrow morning, but I am so disappointed. I am now incomeless, homeless and catless. I'm so sad. I had so many great plans with my new life. I was just so happy with my new llife, I loved the job and the people - it just is so unfair...
I'll keep you all updated in my progress, but I appreciate your prayers and support. BTW - I am in Human Resources Management and if any of you know of a good job, I am willing to take a look at it. I am willing to relocate and travel. Thanks guys for your support, I really appreciate it
God Bless...
Barbie
281/191/170ish
Topic: RE: I am OVERWEIGHT!!!!
Congrats Kris!
You and your family must be so proud!
I have to ask though - how have you lost so much weight in less than a year? How much was bypassed? I haven't even lost 100lbs yet, had surgery a week before you and have followed all the rules! I've sometimes been a bit lax on my exercise, and I know that I have thyroid problems that fluxuate and make my weight loss slow - but man! over 200lbs! WAY TO GO!!!
God Bless!
Barbie
281/191/170ish