The Scoop

Oh, Ronna, I wish I knew you were a Quacker! I had that same outfit, and just gave it to Goodwill. BTW, I didn't even recognize your new post pic! You look awesome!! Lisa S. 227/155.6/140 5'6.5"

See, you *are* a goddess!!! Dang, girl, you hooked a man on your first try! How exciting! Oh yeah, and the touching and the rest...that's the *good* stuff! Congrats!! Beth

Marsha ... It sounds to me like it went well. If he really wasn't interested, I don't think he would have even mentioned getting together again. And I don't think the fact that it was only 30 minutes meant anything bad. You were only meeting for a Coke, so I'm guessing he knew it wasn't meant to be a really long date. I'm sure you will hear from him soon. Debbie

send him an e-mail saying you'd like to take him and his brothers to bed, that'll get his attention--ooooooo! I didn't really write that--I just thought it, right?!? I wanted to make a REALLY NAUGHTY comment about his former profession (head-hunter), but I decided to go for semi-ladylike instead (so as not to ruin my reputation ). tee-hee! lalalalalalalala! sounds like a very good first date to me! PS: you only feel let down because you didn't do the nasty like I advised you! Oh, Marsha, forgive me---I am a very dirty minded girl!!!! He seems a good fellow----! Cathy

You dirty, dirty girl. I am a nice girl, I can't imagine what you would be thinking in regards to his head hunting profession???? Anywho....you absolutely crack me up...Oh and he emailed back, asking to eat at my house and help me cook or order something in and watch a movie... I responded email by saying do you know how to cook or should we order in? I told him my schedule for work this weekend and haven't heard from him since???? Now he knew I was working at 4 - 12 but I am disappointed, I thought he would email back....I hate this waiting thing???

Sounds like it went well. Good for you putting yourself out there like you did. You're brave. Have fun on the "long" date when you go. Karla

Of course he called! What man doesn't want to 'rock the redhead'! Of course, can't have a thing to do with the fact that you are warm, funny, smart & sweet.....that's just an aside!!!!! Have fun on date #2!!! I can see you are having fun--that's what it's all about---! Cathy

Marsha, see what happens when you get a little courage and put yourself out there!! He sounds like a really nice guy and you alread have a second date! Wow!!! I was going to suggest you get AJ's thoughts on your first date (you know, like on Sex in the City, if you watched that), but no need! You've already got the next date lined up!! Now have fun & relax!! Lisa S. 227/155.6/140 5'6.5"

Honey, It's soo normal to get mixed feelings about someones reponses to you....especially when you're still struggling with liking the person you see in the mirror; it is hard to accept that someone else might. He was probably just as nervous as you and was only giving you an excuse to get out of another date because he feared you didn't want to see him again. BTW: You neglected to mention if he was a hottie!! Dawn