123 Losers...21 days..Food for thought!

Hello all! Just a thought..I find myself thinking that next year will be SO different, but will it really? I know that WE WILL ALL BE THINNER, but what will that really change? So that is my question to all of us, what are the things that we are expecting to change? Besides our weight and clothing sizes, are we really going to change that much? I personally am hoping that my life doesn't change that much...my husband loves me already, my kids and family. I DON"T want that to change. I guess, I want my fears to go away...you know the ones..where you think everyone is thinking who cares what that fatty thinks! I guess that is what I will be thinking about the most...how differently non-family members treat me..Will I soon be acceptable? (in their opinion, not mine) And are these people I will truly want to be friends with if they only see the outer me? I guess I am saying that we should all just love ourselves and the people that already see our inner beauty, and the rest.

Nicole, I know what you mean. I wonder how things will change with those around me. They say they see me the real me so what is wrong with me? who is this person i see. Am I ? People I see and tell that I am going to have surgery say...i would never thought you need it. That is frustrating to me. what do they see that I don't? then they talk like I am nuts to even consider it.?? 22 days and counting then I will be working to see the real me and whatever changes come will be good cause I will be happy and healthy and thinner ! remember Nicole this is for us. personnaly and that is what counts. God bless.