I live with a Food Police

My mom lives with my family and she tries to be the food police and the funny thing is Jesse my b/f wasn't really asking too much but now when I try to eat something he says "are you sure?" and then told my mom he wants a list of what I can and can't eat. It makes me smile thinking about it cause he is never really a controlling factor in my life. He usually lets me do what I want. I know he cares . My mom on the other hand, freaks when I puke and wants me to call the dr. all the time. She thinks that throwing up is gonna hurt something. I still have yet to master eating slow so most evenings I wind up uncomfortable. I have read her dozens of posts about other people who go thru the same things, she might be lightening up soon (i hope). Dana