Update on Me and My So-Called Life (a bit long)

Hi everyone!! Seems like I missed one heck of a day and honestly, I am kinda glad! I just want to say that I love all of you, hope no one leaves, and tomorrow is another day in our happier healthier lives!! OK so, things have been a bit hectic with me to say the least. Where to begin?!? So as most of you know, I started seeing a great guy named Aaron. Ladies, he is AMAZING and everything I have been searching for. I know that we are only a month into things, but we talk every day at least once, I spend any time off I have with him, and when my schedule changes at the end of the month to 1130-830 with weekends off (oh the glee in getting a new fantastic schedule!!) we will be able to see each other more than the once maybe twice a week we see each other now. I am so head over heels and he is too. Things are just really great with him. I have gotten back in the saddle and I am soooooo proud of myself for taking the chance on him and having enough courage to go out there and get back into the dating game. I could not be happier!! Also, some of you know that I have a sister. Nicole is just shy of 2 years younger than me. She also started dating a new guy a few months ago, and lo and behold, they are GETTING MARRIED!!!! I could not believe so soon, but when I met him, I knew right away he was my new brother-in-law (I did meet him about 2 weeks into them dating) and I even told my friend that. Well, I was right and now I, being the maid of honor, have a lot of planning to do!! I can't wait till next year... I am going to be a hot maid of honor, instead of the fat, out of place bridesmaid I felt like at my cousin's wedding in October. I am just so happy for them. They are also looking to buy my late grandma's house from my parents and my uncle. If that all goes well, that will really help my parents financially and will also give them one heck of a nice starter house! My sister and I seem to do things together, so my mom has already warned me against back-to-back weddings She said it would kill her!! I corrected her and said it wouldn't kill her, it would kill my dad!! What can I say, both girls are head over heels in love and yes, Aaron and I have even talked about the future already too. I may have just met my match in him!! As for work, well, I like to refer to it as the 5th circle of hell. It's one heck of a job, but the pay is great and the benefits even better. When you look at it that way, I can tolerate 9 hrs a day there. When I came back from my leave after surgery, the first day my supervisor had me post for a supervisor position in our call center. I said, what the heck thinking I would use the interview for experience since I really had no chance in my eyes. Well, as the month and a half went by, I started taking supervisor calls to help out. I LOVE IT!!!! I would so much rather take the supervisor escalated calls than my regular tech support calls and such as I usually do. I volunteer all the time to help out and such. I figured this would be a great way to get experience for my interview. Well, I had my interview on Monday afternoon. I was so nervous but I prepared as much as I could have. I even presented the 2 people that interviewed me with new, updated fresh copies of my resume at the interview when I came in. I did as well as I could during the interview and tried to remain calm and such. There are 25 people that they are interviewing and they are choosing at least 6 and up to a possible 10 if they can get the clearance to take that many. I won't find out for a few weeks, but I really truly pray that I get this position. I did not realize how bad I wanted it until right before I interviewed. Please say some good thoughts and prayers for me. I could really use the extra money and I know I can do the job well. I am just nervous that I did not present myself well enough. Oh well, I did my best. The funny thing is that I never would have taken that chance before. I had enough self-confidence in myself to go out for something I really want and I am proud I took the chance even if I don't get the position. Saturday after work I saw my friend Marci. I don't think any of you know about her, but let me just tell you that last fall, she found a lump in her breast. Then she had her 37th birthday. We were all devestated. Well, this girl had a horrible time with chemo and ended up with extended stays in the hospital a few times because of it. On Friday, Marci made it through her last round of radiation!!! I am so happy!!! She even has some hair again. That was so hard seeing my friend that had long red thick curly hair with absolutely no hair at all. I thank G-d every day that I still have her in my life and made a vow to myself not to take any of my friends or family for granted ever. You never know..... So that's a little (sorry so long) glimpse into my life and what I am up to these days. I have been lurking more than posting, but I am here, all is going so very well, and I am happy to get up every day and take a breath. For me, that may just be my biggest WOW moment. Finding a little bit of inner peace for a change.....it's made a huge difference in my life and I could not ask for too much more. Thanks for reading and thank you all for your love and support. I would not be able to do it without you!! Best Wishes for a Bright Tomorrow -- ~amber~

Girl you HAVE been busy........... I read every word and can appreciate so much that you shared your life. I am so happy for you and the new boy. How exciting. I am happy to hear your friend has made it throug her Chemo, wht a rough journey that has to have been. It's really a blessing that it came wiht a lesson for you as well to appecaite your friends and family more. I am happy for your sister too, how frickin exciting. I have been uot of commision for two days so I willhave to get caught up on what went down here. Take care and congratulationa again girl. ~Kristie

Kristie, I was checking out your profile. WOW, you have changed so much with your loss. You look great! Leeanne

Walmart has them in four flavors and I've seen limited flavors at Albertson's, etc. Connie

Hey Kristie! Thanks and yeah it's been kinda nuts. I am so happy for all the blessings in my life and for once, I am looking forward to tomorrow! Have a great day and hope all is well! ~amber~

Thanks Jenn, I try not to be addicted to the scale, but it is a hard habit to break. I should just concentrate on being happy and healthy. Calvin

Congratulations ! As a post op patient, you should only be consuming 800-1000 calories per day. That is perhaps why your weight is stalling. Also, try upping your protein and water intake. You should be getting in 100-135g of protein per day and at least a half gallon of fluids. Good luck ! VAL Support Group Chapter Leader bariatric101.com

Hi Jen! If there is a wedding in my future, you are all invited!! Without all of you, I would not have the confidence to get out there and possibly find my love. It's so strange being in a real functional relationship... all of my previous ones have been such a mess, so this really is new to me. But we decided to just take it as it comes and see what happens. I will definitely keep you all updated!! This job was my first foray into call centers. I have a bunch of retail mnagement experience, so I took my time learning the ropes. I like my job most times and love the people I work with. I am ready to move up and hopefully I will get that chance. Thanks for the prayers!! I really need them!! My mom and I are thrilled to be working on a wedding for Nicole. She is way overwhelemd with the money side of things (understandibly so) and my mom is so excited because she is a florist and gets to work on what she loves again. Just a good time for our family. I wish nothing but best wishes and tons of prayers and love to your mother in law. It's rough to watch and I can't imagine what they go through. I hope I never will have to. Best wishes and hope all is well on your end! ~amber~

Aww thanks Renee!! Hope all is well with you too!! I know you wanted an update on me and the BF so when there's more I will let you know!! ~amber~

It sounds like you're getting experience as a Level 2 Tech, which is great! Be sure to put that on your resume, if you haven't already! (says she who in her "other" life had a career in I.T. Management) Good luck with the new beau! Chele