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Topic: RE: Going it alone
Lisa.........divorce is not easy. I separated from my (ex) husband when my daughter was just 18 months old. For the past 13 years, I have been doing it all alone. And ya know what? I am stronger than ever. I did it all on my own and for that, I am proud! And you will find your strngth and carry on. There will be bumpy roads ahead, but as you overcome each obstacle, you gain more strength. You are a new you! Do what;s right for yourself! Just remember, we are all here for you.
Shar
Shar
Topic: RE: Going it alone
Take a deep breath Lisa. You are a strong woman. You know we are there for ya..
My hubby and I had a real rocky path ourselves but things finally settled down and are getting better.
The thing I noticed after surgery that is hardest on those around us is that we finally value ourselves. By making ME a priority-it is not selfishness, it is survival.
Keep all this in mind. Having to keep pushing yourself to the back could be a lot of the reason for your problems.
My hubby and I had a real rocky path ourselves but things finally settled down and are getting better.
The thing I noticed after surgery that is hardest on those around us is that we finally value ourselves. By making ME a priority-it is not selfishness, it is survival.
Keep all this in mind. Having to keep pushing yourself to the back could be a lot of the reason for your problems.
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Topic: RE: added new picture
Wow Dee! Another A teamer who needs to update their avatar. Your outfit is VERY cute.
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Topic: Going it alone
Well my hubby and i decided it would be best to call it quits. I am Gonna start to look for a job and move out asap. I felt it is best i move out so he cannot hold anything over my head. I Thought i would be so upset but what does this really mean WHEN I AM ACTUALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO BE FREE?, He said he cannot live with my Disassociative disorder and want a normal wife not a mentally sick wife.. Ouch!! But I cannot blame him he does deserve a quote normal wife. I think alot of things happened and I think maybe having the tummy tuck was the catalyst or his insecurties comming out and my pass flaws he cannot forgive or forget, He said he has anger issues over My disassociative disorder and what it has done to our marriage relationship trust. I am scared and not sure how to break it to kids but i told him we will break it to them when I have my place rented, I have never been on my own sense college and even then he was my boyfriend so being along and w/o a man will be a new experience for me.
I have been eating junk food I think I am numbing my pain and not doing real well. I started to rip out my hair and eyelashes. eating cheetos and cookies. Tommorrow new day. Lisa
I have been eating junk food I think I am numbing my pain and not doing real well. I started to rip out my hair and eyelashes. eating cheetos and cookies. Tommorrow new day. Lisa
Topic: RE: added new picture
Wow u r looking soooooooooooooo amazing!!! U r sooooooooooooooooo thin
Lisa
Lisa
Topic: RE: added new picture
you my friend are looking very good in youre new picture!
keep it up!
luv
josh
Topic: added new picture
ok I did not go to school yesterday so I did not exercise butr let me make your day laughing and tell you why.
I decided I wanted to get my hair cut and wax my lip and eyes now I am 32 and this is the first time I have touched my eyes ever!
OK so I go and get it waxed and they neglect to tell me that you can get welps. S she showed me my eye brows and wow I look so different. She didn't show me my lip so I left got in the car looked in the mirrow screamed so load and started laughing. I have these bumps all over my upper lip area!!!! So I had to ditch my class because I was not going to my class looking like that!!
anyway I did do 40 min of the cybex machine on monday, I add 5 mins everyday and I love to hate that machine!!
So today I will do 45 on that machine and go to class
I posted my 22 month picture in my very first corsett!! I was really excited I always wanted one! let me know what you think Iwant to wear it saturday for my girls night out. Too sleezy? I hope not I thught with the bl;azer it look sassy and cute not ***** like tell me what you think.
dee
I decided I wanted to get my hair cut and wax my lip and eyes now I am 32 and this is the first time I have touched my eyes ever!
OK so I go and get it waxed and they neglect to tell me that you can get welps. S she showed me my eye brows and wow I look so different. She didn't show me my lip so I left got in the car looked in the mirrow screamed so load and started laughing. I have these bumps all over my upper lip area!!!! So I had to ditch my class because I was not going to my class looking like that!!
anyway I did do 40 min of the cybex machine on monday, I add 5 mins everyday and I love to hate that machine!!
So today I will do 45 on that machine and go to class
I posted my 22 month picture in my very first corsett!! I was really excited I always wanted one! let me know what you think Iwant to wear it saturday for my girls night out. Too sleezy? I hope not I thught with the bl;azer it look sassy and cute not ***** like tell me what you think.
dee
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