HI Cheryl, Thanks so much for asking! The Ball was wonderful & the date was great. We had a lot of fun. I was as nervous as all get out, but, survived and really enjoyed myself. He's a nice guy & fun to be with. Will there be a 2nd date? time will tell. It's a little weird because regardless I'll see him alot because we are in a dance class together. It feels kind of like dating someone you work with. You know, that ackward feeling of not knowing. I never was a "serial dater" and it's no easier at 48 than it was at 18. Guess I'll have to just keep practicing untill I get it right! Hopefully, it won't be another 8-9 years between dates! Have a wonderful week, Pam RNY 5/13/04 268/155 below goal & maintaining

Congrats Pam! You've done so well! Hope your date went well! I am just catching up on posts since last wednesday. Sorry! Tricia 247/142/130

Pix, I am glad that you decided not to leave. We missed you too. I'm sorry that someone had said that to you. They should know that we all lose at a different pace and our journey's are all different. I am not at goal yet, and seem to lose very slow now, but that's not a reason for me to get mad at someone for being excited about how well they've done!!! I would be too! Keep posting. I love to read what you write. Tricia

Pam, WEll today is the 16th and Im sure we all want to hear about the ball and your date, good or bad it is a step in the right direction, you look fab, also remember the saying about kissing a few toads before we find our prince keep up the great work congrats on your 1 yr bravo!!, Marcia

Blessings to you as you have your surgery tomorrow. Prayers for safety and speedy recovery. Melissa