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Melissa_Ruff
on 3/25/05 4:49 am - in some holler in, KY
Topic: RE: tummy tuck went ok
Wow congrats!!! I am glad everything went well and I wish you a speedy recovery. I will have to wait much longer for my tt now that we are expecting a baby in November, so it will more than likely be in 2006. I hope you post pictures later, I bet you look amazing- Melissa
Melissa_Ruff
on 3/25/05 4:46 am - in some holler in, KY
Topic: RE: Weighing yourself?
Wow congrats on making it to your goal!!!!!!! I would do it about every 2 weeks if I was at goal. I do it once a week now, but I am far from goal.- Melissa 298/183/130
(deactivated member)
on 3/25/05 3:40 am - CA
Topic: RE: honest opinions please
Now this is a subject I can relate to. I had WLS 5/10/04. I am 5'1" (and ¾) I have to get the three quarters in there :smile: . I started out at 235.5. I was definitely weight driven in meeting my goal for my height. It has been so important to me for my BMI to be "normal" not overweight and defiantly not an obese weight. Therefore 130-132 puts my BMI below 25. I realize the BMI can be a little biased; however it's what the doctor uses as well as insurance companies etc. I am 130 lbs, I wear an average 2 or 4 in misses and 3s or 5s in juniors. I do have a couple of size 1 skirts also. People tell me I look like I weigh 110-115. When I first started out I wanted to weigh around 120-125. If I loose anymore weight it's going to be very difficult to find clothes to fit with out getting everything altered. I can definitely say with out a doubt I am happy at 130. I think anything less than a 2 or 3 on me will make me look emaciated, and that looks very unhealthy. I do weigh myself about every other day. I find if I weigh every day, it makes me "nuts". I purposely don't weigh the week" Aunt Flow Comes to Visit"; I can gain a good 3-5 lbs of water weight. I find if I am creeping up, I monitor my fluid and protein intake (increase) and I always am able to gain control. Control is a new word for me :smile: Its something I didn't have before WLS. I thank God everyday for this surgery and the gifted physicians who perform it. WLS gave me my life and health back. I have no regrets. Cat
feeney
on 3/25/05 2:05 am - Burke, VA
Topic: RE: honest opinions please
Tracy - I agree with Pam. If you feel good and are happy at whatever weight - stay there. Part of this whole process is getting in tune with yourself and your body. It will let you know how your doing at whatever weight you're at. Being healthy and able to do the things I want along with feeling good is far more important to me that what the number on my scale says. If you're at 135 pounds and someone thinks you look like you're at 120 - go with it. If you were 50 years old and someone said you looked 40 would you feel the same way? OK, maybe that's not a great analogy because you can't change your age. But you get my point. They are all just numbers after all. John
Shepherd
on 3/24/05 11:35 pm - Lomita, CA
Topic: RE: honest opinions please
HI Tracy, Congrats on the awesome job!!! Personally, I think you need to go with how YOU feel...not a clothes size or scale weight. I have people telling me I'm too skinny (who'd a thought!), even my mom thought I weighed less than her -- she's 132....and couldn't believe it when I told her I averaged about 157-160 (but I'm 6' tall & very proportioned), and am wearing a size 6-8. When I first got to this wt/size I was shocked, and ran to the Dr thinking I was too thin & something must be wrong. But, I feel great & am healthier than I have been in 25 years. He reassured me that I am perfectly within the normal range for my height, body type, etc I now am just going on how I feel and what I think about how I look. I like myself at this weight & size. I have had to really learn to just take peoples comments for what they are "opinions"....kind of a "noted and thanks for your input" mentality. You are the only one who has to be HAPPY with your body. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and try to put it all into perspective. If you think that loosing another 15 lbs is in your best interest, that you will be healthier, that it is a realistic maintainable, healthy goal weight then go for it. However, if it is just to reach a certain number, maybe you need to think about it an analize it a bit. Sometimes, some of us, cross over that line into a new area, and trade our pre-op compulsive eating behaviors for new ones. Be careful, be smart, be safe. Wishing you continued success & the best of luck Pam RNY 5/13/04 268/157 below goal & maintaining
hermanjeannie
on 3/24/05 9:26 pm - SMALL TOWN, OH
Topic: RE: NEW WEB SITE!!
I just love it...cause you can't talk yourself into...Oh, this ain't too bad!! It makes you honest!! I can tell in black and white, why I am at this stupid plataeu!! Thanks!! Jeannie
hermanjeannie
on 3/24/05 9:24 pm - SMALL TOWN, OH
Topic: RE: honest opinions please
FANTASTIC TRACY!! I had my surgery on May 25, 2005 and weighed the same as you...except I got stuck at 200 pounds. I can't get the rest off. I have started really bad habits, and can't break them. But, I will...I will not stay here forever!! What was your goal weight? Do you look good now? How do you feel? And, most importantly, what does your doctor say? Think about what you are going to look like if you do lose 15 more pounds...too skinny? And, just for fun...if you are a 4-6 now...and you lose 15 pounds...do they make clothes that small. Hee Hee. I am just jealous...that's all!!! Are you maintaining ok? Lots of questions, I know...and you have probably thought about all of them already!! Good Luck, Jealous Jeannie!!
brujah
on 3/24/05 9:21 pm - monmouth, NJ
Topic: RE: honest opinions please
Hi. I only weigh once a month other wise i would be INSANE some peoples weight changes from day to day, so i just dont' get into it at all. i just keep doing what i have been doing and not letting the scale rule my life it is a iam dowm from 278 to 144 my goal is 130-135 but iam just breezing in there
hermanjeannie
on 3/24/05 9:18 pm - SMALL TOWN, OH
Topic: RE: tummy tuck went ok
AWESOME!! JUST WAIT TILL THIS SUMMER!! YOU CAN SHOW OFF THAT NEW BELLY!! GOOD LUCK!! JEANNIE
hermanjeannie
on 3/24/05 9:17 pm - SMALL TOWN, OH
Topic: RE: Weighing yourself?
I understand your feelings!! But, sometimes we get really discouraged when we don't see that weight falling off!! I would say, do the every two weeks weight. That is a happy medium...and you should feel good about that. Talk to you nutritionist...she will understand...maybe she has a good reason too!! Good luck!! Jeannie
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