Your too skinny.......

thats what the boyfriend said this weekend when he broke up with me. Isnt life cruel, fact is he would have loved me at my pre-surgery weight. But as I told him, there is nothing I can do about it and I would NEVER want to go back to that weight again. So look out, single Cary is back on the market and oh yeah she is down 110lbs now and the size 20 jeans are already to big, so watch out!

Wow, Cary, that sucks... I know you really liked him... Geez, the irony... That's nuts... where were guys like him a couple of years ago???

I did really like him and cant say anything bad because he really is a nice guy, but yes how ironic. Its ok somewhere out there is a guy who will like the skinny me I am sure!

Well I can say something bad about him... plenty in fact. He's shallow - no better than a man who would not date a woman because she's too fat. He, like many men, is far more concerned about the outside packaging than what is going on inside. That does not make him "nice" or smart for that matter. I'm glad he showed his true colors before you became even more emotionally invested in him. *HUGS*

Wow, you know your right! In fact he did admit that he is shallow so guess he agrees with you there . But in the end its his loss and when he comes back (they always do) he will realize its too late and he lost a good thing. Thanks for the hugs! Cary

No disrespect but motha@$%^&...(thats my favorite term today) Just think how much worse would you have felt if he broke up with you for being to fat. Either way I know that it is absolutely his loss! Watch out cause ALIYA AND CARY are on the market!

Hi there: Sorry to hijack, but I had to for this one. I clicked on your profile because I *thought* you looked familiar. Kinda like this lady I used to see on the boards in a cute green top with curly hair. And it IS you!!! YOU LOOK FREAKING FANTASTIC!!! Congrats and keep it up, girlie! Tiffany S 328/212 (darn plateaus!)/???

LOL, thanks so much Tiffany!