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Rejoicing 2B free
on 9/27/06 12:41 pm - southern states
on 9/27/06 12:41 pm - southern states
Topic: RE: Two Years Ago Today (not a surgiversary)
Kathy, you have made such great progress. We are all so proud of you here.
Seems a special gift that you were given Rich and the comfort and encouragement and support of your sweetheart when your loss was so fresh. His example with wls and your doc's nudge with genetics not looking favorable...seem to be nuggets of gold. Look at you now!
You are in my prayers daily and especially at this anniversary. I was just thinking of my Mom tonight as we drove home from dinner. My Down's syndrome brother in the back seat. He's having surgery tomorrow for a hernia. I was pondering and asking God if Mom could pray for him and me and our family. A lot of crisis lately. Seems like a 'Mommy hug' just about now would feel great.
The same week my Mom passed away a lady from church picked me up for a Bible study. We became dear friends and now after 24 yrs. she is one of the dearest blessings in my life. She's maybe 8 yrs. my senior. My kids called her Grandma almost from the start and she is my 'Mommy person' . I called her this afternoon to cry on her shoulder about a daughter who has gone astray. What an inexpressable comfort. I pray for you such a treasure. None could ever replace our Mom's. Occasionally if we are double blessed he gives us a friend who has the knack to help fill up the 'hollow'.
You gave a very lovely tribute.
Mary
Rejoicing 2B free
on 9/27/06 12:15 pm - southern states
on 9/27/06 12:15 pm - southern states
Topic: RE: What are we Eating on Wed?
Hey, I'm nosey, Where did ya get that protein drink???? Love anything w/banana
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B. 1/2 c. cottage cheese, 1/2 c. strawberry sf jello w/strawberries
L. 1 egg foo young w/ sauce 2 Tablsp. fried rice, broccoli, 3 teasp. strawberry ice cr.
S. 1 chz stk, 2 v-8 juice
D. 2/3 sweet potato, 3 oz. lean steak, 1/2 salad w/ 1Tablsp. blue chz dr.
S. 1/2 c. cottage chz. 1/2 c. sf strawberry jello, 1/2 slice maple cake about as wide as your pinkie finger ( just had to taste it ) , atomic fireball

Topic: RE: Two Years Ago Today (not a surgiversary)
Kathy,
That was beautiful, I know she would be so proud!
Topic: RE: Two Years Ago Today (not a surgiversary)
Kathy, I'm so sorry you're greiving for you mom tonight... I lost mine 13 years ago when I was 18. She died on her 52nd birthday. I think of her often and I know how hard it is. Even now, I miss her.
I'm glad, though, that you've been able to honor your mother in such a special way, both by deciding to improve your health and then by doing it on her birthday. Your overwhelming success is a tribute to her and I know she's smiling down on you, wherever she is.

Topic: Two Years Ago Today (not a surgiversary)
Two year ago today, in the wee hours - just after midnight, my mother passed away. She just took her last breath and was gone. My father, sister and I were all in the house. You see, she had suffered several strokes two weeks before and the hospital could do no more for her. She was so paralized (all but one hand) that rehab wouldn't have yielded much. They put a feeding tube into her nose and she pulled it out twice letting us know that she didn't not want any part of it. So with hospice's help, we took her home to die.
It is still hard to write that. What does this have to do with WLS? To me, it has everything to do with it. Right after her death, I went to see my own doctor. I looked at her and said "I'm following in my mother's footsteps - I already have diabetes and high blood pressure. I have coronary artery disease and strokes coming. What can I do?" She suggested WLS.
Rich (my fiance at the time) had WLS a month and a half before. I had thought about it for myself but not really seriously until this conversation with my doctor. My insurance didn't cover WLS so Rich and I got married a year earlier than planned to get me on his insurance and get the WLS ball rolling. We were married on November 22, 2004 which would have been my parents 52nd wedding anniversary if my mother had lived. Obviously we picked the day to honor my parents. Who gets married on a Monday anyway. LOL!
My WLS had to wait for me to get added to the insurance and to get approved and to get back surgery done first. I remember getting the call about my surgery date. I didn't pick it but it was scheduled for May 20th, 2005. That day would have been my mother's 73rd birthday. I knew the date was meant to be.
Here I am two years after her death, thinking about her. Thinking about how shocked she would be to see me now. I'm 121 lbs smaller than when she last saw me. As of yesterday for the first time ever as an adult, I weigh what I weighed in 8th grade 156 lbs (I'm actually 155 today). She would be shocked. She might even be concerned that I had lost too much. Imagine that.
So, tonight I'm thinking of my journey over the past two years and thinking of my mom. Her loss, spirited me into getting a full life back. One of hope. One without diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea and hopefully without heart issues and strokes.
Thank You Mom! I love you and I miss you!
Your baby, Kathy
Topic: RE: What are we Eating on Wed?
That's the ONLY protein shake I will ever drink. I've been drinking it (banana creme) for over a year and never get sick of it!
Topic: RE: Getting fuller faster via pilates?
Laugh, Pilates, Laugh
We don't need pilates, see my corset post.
That is pilates bitterness speaking.
I checked out from my library, "Pilates for Dummies", guess what? Yep, I am too dumb. This was a VERY humbling experience, as I've never considered myself dumb, and I've been working out faithfully for months. I just couldn't do the core stuff. After talking to my tummy tuck surgeon this week, apparently my core muscles were in pretty terrible shape, as in not much left there at all. That, and three hernias. So I am hoping that someday (heaven only knows how long) when I recover from this latest surgery insanity, I will have some muscles I can actually try Pilates with. Even for Dummies.
Debra M.
vicodin is still my friend
Topic: What are we Eating on Wed?
Hey guys
breakfast- Worldwide Ready To Drink Banana Cream ( I love it, love it, love it)
lunch-small salad, slice of pizza (it looked good, but was nasty)
dinner-not sure