4 yr Surgiversary for me!

Yesterday was my 4 year Surgiversary. I totally forgot but this morning had a very nice email congratulating me from ObesityHelp. The past year has been one that I will never forget. A lot of loss went on for me this year. Loss of my Father, my home, my marriage.... I am now a divorced woman. It's been very difficult. I don't know if my marriage is considered a WLS statistic but I do believe that WLS gave me the strength to stand up for myself and say I don't deserve this anymore. My weight this past year hit a low again of 145 but currently is at a high of 163, I've allowed bad habits back in my life and I'm still an emotional eater. It's scary to be up, but I am working on making the changes I need to make and continue to be a wls success. I still lurk on the boards on almost a daily basis. I long to continue my reconstructive surgery and have the excess skin on my thighs and back/butt removed. But I don't know if that will ever happen due to finances and job issues. I am happier in this new life, new beginnings. WLS is the best thing I ever did!

Congratulations Stax!  Yes, I know its been a hard year for you, but I sense it is the beginning of some wonderful things too.  I haven't seen you, but I'm guessing you still look fantastic.  I know the number scares you, but finding a healthy balance is something we all can do.  I'm working on it too, and have a lot longer to go than you!  Lets get together soon! -Donna

Thank you my dear friend! I miss you terribly! I really hope to see you guys soon! XOXO!!

Hi Stacie, Happy 4th Surigversary to you!  Quoting the Virginia Slims ad, " You've come a long way baby!" Kim

Awww, thank you Kim! I like that quote, you are so right!

Happy Surgiversary gorgeous. I saw you just 3 months ago at Christmas time and you are one hot Mama. I've always admired you and you have always been an inspiration to me. My 4 year is also around the corner and I know what you mean by scary to up a few lbs. WLS was not the magic pill but YES the tool does work if you use it. My tool right now has been misplaced but I look for it everyday. What a struggle.

I hope this year is a much better year for  you...... It can't get worse right?

Love Ya!!!

Thank you Nadine! I'm so proud of you too! I hope you are doing well with your big changes!

   Sorry you have had such a rough year! I know you will continue your WLS success! Don't be so hard on yourself, you are human and have had a lot to be emotional about! May God give you the strength to get back on track and make the most of your great new life!!!  Woo Hoo for you sweetie!!!  big hugs, Becky

Thank you so much Becky!

Stacie, thanks for your honesty, as always...you were my number one inspiration to pursue WLS, and still are one of my heroes...

While in church this morning, I was watching the worship team...Jonnie...millane...and thinking, "wonder which one of those young gals that one in the middle is"? :)

Much to my surprise when you came and sat down in front of me.... I realized, that ain't no young thang...that's STACIE!!

But, please know...you look like some "young thang"...LOL..seriously...

I also am still an emotional eater... my father is suffering...the family is stretched, but really hanging in there together...and so I am on the threshold of knowing a bit of what you have gone through this year...

Hang in there, my friend...hang onto your faith..your friends... your family...

much love to you and happy four years!!

Lori