Saw this on the Main Board

You are rockin.  Don't worry about everyone else, only you...............Keep up the good work. Annabelle

I have to agree with everyone else, you are doing great!! The other surgeon should not have put such negative thoughts into her head, that was wrong!!!   Like Lu said, even though it is hard, you really can't compare yourself to others in this ride, we are all so different and there are too many variables to consider!!!  Keep up the great job you are doing sweetie!!!  YOU GO GIRL!!!!  big hugs, Becky