Lose the weight, get a date, how long did it take?

Taralynn, I'm so sorry to hear how difficult your post-op recovery has been.  Shame on the doctor for not preparing you first.  I will heed your advice, nothing speaks louder than the voice of could have been.....   I am exercising on a regular schedule and pushing myself to the gym 3 times a week.  I'll try harder!!  As for your situation, all I can offer is an ear, a shoulder, and encouragement that things will get better.  Thank you so much for caring about me, when you need care yourself.  Hugs, Mary