Xpost: Green Monster

Wow, people can be so stupid! I can't tell you how many times foods like Chuck E Cheese sent me to the bathroom with the runs prior to surgery. A high fat and high carb diet can do that to anyone's system because it is so bad for the body. Think of someone with IBS, they would have been in the bathroom longer than you.

I say you know what is best for you. If you feel like explaining it go ahead, but I think your husband hit the nail on the head when he says she is jealous. I hardly think she is aware that she is jealous though, she is just trying to justify to herself why you continue to be successful and why she is not. This is probably going to come down to how good of friends you are. If you are super close you might want to explain it all, if not just chalk it up to another person who has "the grass is always greener on the other side" sydrome (those who always think they have got it harder than anyone else).

Good Luck!!

You friend who is post op, and she doesn't know what happens when you eat something that doesn't agree with you?  Hummm guess you can say, you really do know why she gained weight.

I think the words "bite me" fit in just about right with that woman!

She is not friend, a friend is one who would make sure you were ok when in the rest room, not making her opinion known outside of it.

I MISS our racing today~

Hugs, Diane

She of all people should know not to judge or even comment on anyone elses wl.  She is definately jealous, so take it with a grain of salt. You hold your head up high everytime your around them (her and her family) you don't have to prove anything to them.  You've proven and continue to prove it to the only one *****ally matters, YOU!!!  Hugs,  Donna