Mom's cancer is back, postpone surgery?

You know Ms. Blues, I have pondered your situation since I read it yesterday. A lot of people here gave some good advice to go ahead with the surgery like your mother wants you to do.

Think of it this way too...your mom might really rally in light of you making the choice to live a healthier life and you could be doing something for her in a round about way. I know it sounds a bit far fetched, but stranger things have happened.

I will keep you all in my thoughts and know that you will make the right decision. I really believe you can have this surgery with your mom being sick again and you will be able to tend to her. I am sincerely hoping also that your mom has the will and the power within herself to fight her way back to remission!

Whatever you decide, we are all here to support you and your decision!