Good Saturday Morning Cali

Chris,

Sounds like a fun walk.  Wish I would have known about it as I would take my Baybee!  She loves to walk and hike and all that.  You have a fun time.

Rhonda

Good Morning Janine and Cali,

Not much going on with me.  Trying to exit out of school and get things together for finals and what not.  You know the end of the year teacher crap.  So this weekend will be cleaning, school work, errands and hopefully rest.

Everyone enjoy the day

Monica

Good morning Janine and crew....

I am so sorry your computer messed you up...don't you just HATE when that happens....BAD COMPUTER.  Hope you were able to go back and get some rest.

Not alot planned for me today...(shock).  I have been on the run all week.  And this morning I actually slept until almost 6 - YEAH.  I guess several nights out and some shopping during the week took its toll...lol.

Anyhow...Not alot new with me...just seeing alot of my "guy" and let me just assure all of you that are watching out for me...he treats me like a queen...its great.  But I just need to get over my inside turmoils of waiting for him to do something bad...I think its my history with the ex husband and a couple of relationships that make me so distrustful of men...keep looking for something wrong and waiting for him to hurt me...I know I have issues but all these years of being single make this wall I have around me pretty darned solid.  I guess I just want to make sure I don't get hurt again.  Of course then there are my fat girl issues of me thinking "how can someone care about me - they must just want something".  But I am enjoying all the attention for sure.  So how long does it take to get the fat girl out of our heads (or does she ever go away).  Will I ever truly trust a man again?  Hmmm who knows...so here I am blabbing to all of you...my online "therapists"  lol. 

So thats it for me...time to go have my protein coffee and read the paper and maybe watch a movie this morning.  I just got "Hes Just Not That Into You" and am looking forward to watching it.

Have a great Saturday everyone ....

Jean I know what you are saying about waiting for the other for the other foot to drop to speak.

You have to trust your instincts and if those instincts are telling you what a fab guy you new man is...then you are most likely right.

There is no perfect person and no matter what you are always going to find some flaw in someone, but if he is making you happy and treats you like a queen then go for it. You deserve it!

Not all guys are bad and not all guys have an agenda. He sounds pretty darn cool. I know you have fat girl issues...but you are no longer fat. He cares for you for you...you have to believe that. Would he if you had been heavier...I bet so from the way it sounds.

Remember how he feels about you and treats you comes from within...you are good person Jean who happens to be pretty... a good package deal and for sure he is not so dumb not to see that and feel it.

Years ago Jeff married me at 360 pounds. I could never understand it, but let this great guy love me. After I lost my weight and had reconstructive surgery, I swear Jeff had me on his arm like a trophy and one day..you know me....I said to him...."What do you like fat chicks or something?" and his reply was..."No Janine, it was who you are inside."  I was like huh....he would have loved me fat, skinny or anything in between I realized at that point.

Don't push him away in your subconscious Jean because of previous men...they are not all bad...they are so good guys out there and I hope for you...."This is the one!"

Post about the movie cuz I was going to get it on Netflex, but I am so into watching previous seasons of Desperate Housewives....I don't know if I want to take a break from that....how did I ever go withou****ching that show? LOL

Have a good day friend!

Hey there Jeanie,

The "fat girl" in all of us gets really comfortable living inside our heads.  You need to serve her an eviction notice!  Seriously, as far Dave is concerned, you are doing the smart thing watching where this is going.  However, my take on how he feels is that he is genuinely fond of you.  It's the way he looks at you when the two of you are talking... just a vibe I get.  I do have to say that your choice of movies..."He's Just Not That Into You" is an interesting choice.  LOL!

Anyhows, not much on tap for me today.  Maybe get my nails done and a pedicure... It's been a full  week dealing with my Dave.  He is doing much better and has an appointment to complete some additional tests next week when his doc is back in town.  Maybe I'll see if my hair guy has time to do something with my hair today as well.

Janine, hope you are feeling better as each day goes by and that "bad" computer!!  Nikki, hope all goes well with you too, post-op.  Chris, have a great walk today!  Glad the kids are feeling better!  Karen hope you had a good time being the chauffeur for daughter and friends.   And to everyone else, have a wonderful weekend!!

~Naomi

Jean,

I have only met Dave a couple of times and I think he is a great guy, that really adores you. He comes to the LB Coffee which to me seems that he supports you and the things that are important in your life. Naomi is right when she pointed out about which movie you picked, He's just not that into you", maybe you need to watch "Stella got her groove back"..lol Honey, you are hot and you need to get that "fat girl" out of your head!! I hope you enjoy the time with Dave and have fun enjoying your life. You have worked so hard, to be where you are, enjoy every moment!!

Jules

Good Morning Janine and Cali Crew,


I am just about to head out to work. I hope the day goes by fast. I am not feeling the work thing at all this morning. Oh well. I have got to stop working all these days with only one day off in between. It is just not enough. I did this one to myself, I switched with someone. I am still very sore from my workout with my trainer the other day. I hope I can walk out my legs more today. It is getting very hard to sit down. I hope everyone has a great weekend.!!!!!


Eileen

Good morning everyone!

I'm planning a great weekend of preparation for my surgery.  It's coming up on June 15th and I need to finish my last bit of shopping.  Getting some soft foods for my house for later.  Grabbing more protein powder, broth, etc. for my house and my sister's since my kids and I will stay with her for a few days post op....and then normal chores.

I also have to take my new adorable 10week old yorkie puppy to the vet for her checkup and more shots.

I'm getting excited!  Oh, and I'm sure I will have some sort of food that I know there is no way I can have for a year or so after surgery....Probably some mexican food for dinner Sunday.  

My pre-op liquid diet starts Monday!

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

Hi Janine and Cali,
Well my DH decided I needed to get out of the house yesterday.  He took us for a drive to Monterey.  I walked to the wharf and they had some lunch, I took a SF pudding and jello in a small lunch bag.  They enjoyed their chowder and looked at the fishermen coming back from their morning jaunt.

I was getting really tired.  We walked back to the car, I had to stop a couple of times.  I think I slept the whole way home.  I was a nice thought but I think it was too much for me.  The rest of the day I was totally drained. I slept and sipped and that was it.

Hope everyone enjoys their day today.

Good Morning Cali,

I am here at work doing OT. 

Janine, sorry to hear that your computer was acting up. 

I have to go now.  Everyone have a great day.

Kim