Please Protect Yourself.

As many of you know someone was going into my on-line accounts and doing strange things.  Things that were not approved by me.  I must share again Please do not give your password to anyone ever for anything.  if you need help with an avatar let the person help you then go in immediatly and get a new password.  I also encourage you not to take freinds requests from people who you don't know very well.  Today because of my on-line issues and a person having their friends send me friends request to obtain information on my actions, I felt it necessary to contact the authorities.  If you feel that you too are being harrassed or bothered I encourage you to do the same thing.  This crap has got to stop.  It is not o.k. period.  I will go to the ends of this earth to protect myself and my famiy and my friends.  I have also contacted an attorney and provided them with emails/IP addresses etc. I am so happy that I had the forthought to keep every email/correspondance/IM/PM/voicemail message I ever got from this person.  Something I have never done in my life and I pray I will never do again.  If this person does not stop completely my attorney will proceed with the necessary actions.

It is sad but necessary sometimes, rhonda...

good for you for being strong...

you're heart was always in the right place, and I am so sad that some people are unable to receive true friendship.

May we all learn from this!!

xoxo
Lori

Good Reminder!  If everyone operated on the same level as most of us here do, then there'd be no problems.  However some people are so concerned with causing evil and disruption and drama just because they thrive off of it.

Protect yourselves and your families!

Thank you for the head's-up Rhonda and sharing this with us.

You are quite welcome. 

Rhonda

I'm distressed to hear that this saga continues Rhonda.  I was hoping it was a dead horse; apararently, out of site NOT out of mind :-(   Hopefully, by taking the legal steps necessary, this will cease to happen...I'll be thinking of you.
Nancy aka Sunray

Thank you Nancy, I was hoping it was over too, but it was not, maybe now, but honestly I doubt it.  Please keep my in your prayers as I know you do.  Thanks so much.
Rhonda

Rhonda,

So sorry you are still having to deal with the situation.  It is a horrible way to have to live but one many of us, me included, have dealt with for quite a few years now.  Your reminder is a good one about passwords.  But everyone needs to take it one step further, by changing your passwords every couple of months. It's a hassle, but in the long run it is well worth it to keep unscrupulous individuals out of your personal life.

One other point of information, never, never, never, post anything on any website or even in an email that might come back to bite you in the butt.  People can use postings against you, they can use emails against you and they can alter emails to make it look like you have said something you never have.

In a nutshell, be careful with your online life as you would in real life.  You don't give out your credit card numbers.....don't give out your passwords.

Stephanie

It breaks my heart that you had to go to such extremes just so you can feel comfortable living your life and not looking over your shoulder. But I'm glad you did it so your can have peace!

I just continue to pray for the troubled and hope that she finds some peace.  It's sad that she is missing out on the gift of your friendship that she had and destroyed!!!

Thanks for the reminder to keep ourselves safe and protected. I know I am too trusting and don't really think about it!

biggest huggs for what I know is a tough day for you sweetie!!!
love you so much, you know that!!!!

Thanks so much.  I really cared for this person with all my heart, and it was tough to do, but it had to stop.  I am like you very trusting.  But as always my faith in God did protect me and lead me to the right place and to do the right thing.  Please join me in praying for this person as they really need to get some help.
Rhonda