Need my OH friends righ now!!!

Hi Cali Crew,

As many of you know I have been around this board for along time now, (yes it the past year I have been more of a lurker). This board was designed for support....well my friends one of your OHer friends is in need of some support.

For those of you who know me this past 18 months has not been the greatest. Living with someone who was very controlling and over bearing and so on really takes a toll. Well after I sperated from that person I was really happy. Well I am finding that over the past month in a half I hvae been getting really depressed. I am not sure if it is all my emotions coming out from my past marriage and then with the divorce stuff coming up or if I am just not happy with myself.

So I am asking if anyone knows anything about depression can you fill me in alittle. Is it ok for us to take depression meds? If so, what are some that we can take?

Thanks my friends,
Willa

Willa,

I am so sorry to hear about all the stuff you are going through...noone deserves that.

I'm not much help since I have never experince depression, but I just want to let you know that I will be thinking of you and hope the best for you.  Maybe you should call your surgeon and talk to him/her.  I know my surgery has given depression meds to some of my friends that are/have gone through the same thing as you...

Best of luck!!!

Hugs to you!!!!

Michele

Willa,

I know quite a few folks from OH who are on meds for depression.  The best thing for you to do is to go start with your PCP.

I'm sorry you are experiencing this.

Lisa

Willa,
this sucks to hear; but I hope you pull through it.  Try to focus on the good things you got going right now.  I'll be thinking good thoughts for you.

JaviC

Willa,

Sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now.  Talking is a good thing and asking for support also.  Many on the boards take anti-depression medication that have had our surgery.  Some take it for a little while and others need it long term.  Everyone experiences some type of depression in their life time.  Some are mild and some are not.  Some are chemical and some a situational.  Sometimes you just need to talk it through.  I would check with your PCP as everyone has advised you to do and come here more often to talk about things that are bothering you.  Walking helps me if I am upset and need to clear my head.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Rhonda

Hi Honey
I have to agree with the others - talk with your Dr.  Also give me a call.  I have experience with dealing with depression and take meds - have for many years.  I originally started on them because of menopausal crap (I know - TMI) but I have had no problems taking them since WLS.  You know you can call me anytime - you have the number.  Just try to focus on the good.  And there is no shame at all in seeking counseling to help through issues we all deal with.  Hang in there my friend.....we all love ya and are here to support you.

Willa:

I have experienced depression and after suffering for quite a long time, my doctor put me on Wellbutrin.  It took several weeks before I felt better, but it helped a lot.  Please see your doctor and be very honest about everything going on with you.  Let me know if you need anything.

Good Morning Willa and sorry to hear you're under the weather lately.  I agree with the others who have posted relative to seeing your PCP to determine what is going on and also what is the best meds for you when and if you need them.  There is nothing wrong with taking meds for depression.
I am sending you lots of hugs and wishes for a better day.
Terry

Good Morning Willa,

It sounds like you have recognized that something is amiss. That is the first step to helping yourself pull out of the depression. I have some experience with depression, but not since wls. Sometimes, some people just need to "unload" to a friend or trusted person, others do need help with anti-depressants. Do what is right for you. There isn't any right or wrong, only what is going to work for you. Just please remember, anti-depressants usually take 3-4 weeks to produce some results.
You do have a lot on your plate. Your life has been overturned basically in 18 months. I am sorry that you have had to go through all of this. But, you are now in charge of your life. Grab your power and claim it back. You seem to be trying to do that, by asking for help. I congratulate you on that big step. Hang in there, my friend. Things will work out, just have to have some paitence.
I am here if you ever need to just chat or anything.
What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger.

Many hugs, lots of love, & friendship always,

I have been taking the generic form of Celexa, which is called Citalopram. I get my 30 days' worth for $4 at Wal Mart. I started it over 10 years ago when I went through what was probably a situational depression and found that I REALLY LIKED myself MUCH better when taking it so I've stayed on it. I seem to be able to handle things more smoothly and less angrily. Sure, I experience 'blue' days but I have never had a depression in the form where I couldn't get out of bed or shower and be a person for days....THAT is serious depression. THAT needs to be addressed immediately!

So much ignornant comments (not here) in the world about antidepressants and I'm sick of it. Especially from men who think any problem should be handled, just take your licks and get on with it. Now, I'm not bashing men but they as a whole seem to be WAY more misinformed and against taking meds. Then I see people who are bipolar and start feeling SO MUCH better after taking them and then, BAM, do something stupid because they treated it (medication) like an infection and "gee, I'm well now" and quit taking them!

You can NEVER just cold turkey an antidepressant, you have to phase them out. However, that being said, Bipolar doesn't "go away" -- it's permanent mental issue. Your personal issues might be permanent, might not be. But trust me, YOU WILL feel better the sooner you get on something!  Celexa was the first thing I tried and loved it because I felt immeasurably better within 7 days. But you might have to try different ones to see what you like best.