TOTALLY TERRIFIC TUESDAY!
Boy you ask a simple question and I write back a book. Have fun!
on 10/27/09 2:22 am
Mornin y'all, last night I had my options class in Fontana. The wind was a bit strong. It was an intresting class, they talked about understandin food plans and why we are wantin to have this surgery. Very intrestin. Diane C., I tried to find your gal and asked the person in charge of the class, and they said there isn't anyone by that name in our class. So im guessin she might be in one of the other classes. I wanna thank the ladies that have been thoughtful to ask me to be a friend. Thank ya, Kat, bebaugh, LittleMichele. It sure is nice to find some nice women on here. I was gettin discouraged. I suffer from panic attacks and last night I had a big one. I was ok after all. My therapist says I am doing so much better, than before.
Well I have chosen the block button, and can't see that person if she ever is on here again. The best thing to do is back away from someone like that,
Well Mo, I am so sorry about what your friend is going through, and everyone has offered you so much, the only thing I can add is my prayers and thoughts for your friend. I know so well, I am watching my own father starting to slip, but he is not serious, and there is hope. But my mom was in a home when she died, I am glad that she died of lung cancer before the altzhemers got so bad as to forget my dad. I don't think he could have handled that. It's been 5 years now. Please let you friend know that she is not alone but that there is plenty of people out here that have been through, or going through the same situation.
Barb, and I am hoping that you find something good for your FIL. I am so sorry that you all go through this. Looking for a good home is so difficult, and we went through 5 of them before we found one that was half way decent. My dad was acutally the one that cared for my mom there, she had a beautiful room and everything like home, but we just could not care of her. So you know that there are prayers for you too.
For me today nothing much. I was going to go to therapy today because it would have been for only one day, We leave tomorrow after my bandages get changed and are gone for either 2-4 nights, not sure. I am wanting to go to my friends house in San Diego, but I think I better call and make sure before I use my key! If I can get there Chris S, you think you would like to meet up??? I will send you email to make sure. Would be so fun to finally meet you.
Well all, know that I have you all in my prayers today. I have lots of time for that, and Rhonda, thank you for your post and those that have posted after her. How sweet are you people. Those that know me, know me, I am who I am, and I love people. I love you all.
Hugs, Diane
MoMo, there have been a lot of good suggestion here for your friend. In Home Support Services (IHSS) provides wonderful care. If your friend is home a lot being a major caretaker, the state may also "pay" her as a caretaker too. I know this was the case when my aunt was my grandmother's caretaker. I am also worried about your friend, but you sound like you're providing wonderful support.
My mom is healing day by day. Cancer is such a cruel disease. It doesn't go away and comes back whenever it wants to.
I am just getting ready to leave the office for an hour to run errands and maybe get a walk in. I have my eating disorders support group tonight. I've been in this group for almost ten years now.
Take Care!
MsBlues