We are not here for the "DRAMA" we are here for Surgery Support!

That reminds me... in the sticky threads there is one from OH saying "cut the crap" and it shows you as having posted in that thread but I can't see your post. What's that about??!

More drama...from July. I responded to the moderators and asked them what we should do about someone who stirs up trouble....then they hid my post. Perhaps I rocked the boat a little too hard.

If they hid your post (which I think is dumb), they should have hid that you posted. But the OH software really sucks IMO so I'm not the least bit surprised that it's confusing.

Me, too. 

You are so right Rhonda,  I am tired of coming here with people who are always less than truthful.  When I first came here, it was for support.  My friendships followed and they took years to florish.  I didn't come online to find friends, I got plenty, but then one can never have enough.  But my friendships just happened, I wasn't trying to be friends with anyone and everyone I came in contact with.  I just needed alot of help because of a very non supportive doctor.  I owe alot to this board and alot to the people of this board.  If it weren't for some of them, I probably would have never lost as much as I have because I was very ignorant to what was needed to do.  Now I am happy to share my experiences.

Like Katt I got enough crap going on in my life, I don't need anyone else's Next time someone starts with stuff, I will use the block and just get them out of being able to see them. Gosh enough is enough.  If that Becca chick comes back, I won't see what she writes.  If anyone else comes around and they start stuff, I won't be seeing them.  I hope that the friendships I have made will last a lifetime, because the older you get the more precious life is, and the more important friends are.  Throughout all this last few weeks I have learned alot.  I love people, but I am no longer telling acquaintance that I love them.  Those words are for those that are honest and forthright.  Those words are for those special to me.

You will no longer see me argue with anyone, because you know what, it's all drama, and some people just can't live without it.  Some people love to cause all they can.  I hate it and no longer will participate in it.  I am here to support newbies and help those that ask for help.  No more crap zone for me.

Diane

Amen to that my friend!  I love the block feature.  Lets all start using it.  Takes the power away from the person when you cant see the drama!  lol

YOU SAID IT ALL.....and I agree with everything you said.....

And you - my friend - are one of those special people that will for sure be a BFF forever...

I feel the same my dear!

:)
Rhonda

OMGoddess, some of these boards can be so stressful. I took a mini-break and found two boards I really like. So far they are respectul, fun, informational.

Diane,

I so much agree with what you said....This board is for support...that is the one and only reason I came on the board in the beginning, but I have met some wonderful people and some GREAT friends.  Even people on here where I can say I LOVE YOU, because Diane you are one of those honest and forthright person and I cherish our friendship.

Hugs to you lady!!!!!  Michele