OT: If you had or have questions......

After my computer decided to take the weekend off (virus caused by another program and NOT OH). I was able to use my recovery disk and had to start the whole installation process all over again. Thank you Diane. I downloaded the anti-virus software you recommended.
I will use this thread to say this and if you don't agree with what I have to say then block me, which seems to be the activity for everybody to partake in, lately.
Everything that is said has two sides. An  educated person knows that. They know not to assume guilt before knowing both sides. There is no room on this board for drama or accusations. I understand about trying to being careful and trying not to be vulnerable, due to the past that has happened on this board. People are entitled to their opinions, but this is not the forum in which to voice differences, make accusations, or in general bring drama into people's homes or places of work. We ALL have enough drama and do not need somebody else's. If you wish to talk about your family, feel free to do so. This room and website are are for all of us to enjoy. Yes, the majority of us are here to give and receive support and advice, but some of us just like to share the in and outs of our everyday life.
We should all feel free to talk to who we want, PM who we want, and in general do not allow others to make decisions for you. Its your power. I am sure there will be many people who will "discuss" my thread and have negative thoughts about it, but you know what that is their right. I am trusting instead of posting their negative thoughts here, they will just utilize the block button. I am not insinuating any particular person when I am saying this, so please do not assume.
If you have any questions, feel free to PM me. I'd much rather have you ask me, than to assume.
"Let he without sin, cast the first stone" and by that I mean, if you can honestly point at me and accuse me of wrong doing, without having four other fingers pointing back at you, then ask me in all honestly anything you want.
I thank those that have reserved judgment, until both sides were told. This is the last of this or any other drama you will here from me. Its going to be interesting to see how many view versus replies I will get on this thread.

Sincerely,

I am glad you got things fixed Michelle.  I don't partake in judgement because unless I know the whole story, it's not my place to judge.  It is just good to see your face again. 

Its good to be back, Stacie. Thank you!

I have always found you to be up front, supportive, and encouraging.  Welcome back. 

Thank you, Elizabeth.

I still don't really understand the whole computer issue, or why accounts got deactivated. I'm glad you came back, I hope you stay.  I think it's honorable to come back and try to make things right.

If I offended you or falsely accused you of anything I apologize.

There is alot going on that is not being posted on the board. At the heart of all this there is a conflict between 2-3 people that has not been resolved.

 I wasn't involved in what happened to cause all the conflict....but for some reason there are members of the OH community who want me to get involved, offer my opinion, give advice and talk about things that I have no knowledge of...

So let me say this here for everyone to read:  I have not taken anyone's side in this issue. Whatever happened didn't involve me, I'm not part of the problem and I don't think I can be part of the solution either.

However, I have made a commitment to speak up when I know of wrongdoing, intimidation, bullying and any other type of craziness I know of. I'm not afraid to be heard, I'm not afraid to be wrong, and I won't be manipulated into someone's campaign to gain OH popularity.

I have so much more to say, but I'm just going to hold my peace for now.....

apology accepted, Monica. It takes a person with honor and convictions to apologize in a public forum. Thank you.

Well said Monica...

You Go Girl!  You sound a lot like me.  I try to stay out of the drama but if anyone attacks me directly I will smack 'em down!  Me, personally I prefer to just stay out of it, ignore the crap and carry on my happy way.  Some days it's awfully nice to be way up north and out of the line of fire!

As to why you would be on a computer without anti virus is beyond me.  Yes we are all free to say what we want, but you really have to admit, that it was very strange what happen, extemely ironic and strange.  I will now send you a PM.