Just an FYI update
I know I don't post much lately, but most of you know why I've been so busy. I am now in my official new home living with the AWESOME Diane C. My daughter, Tara, and I LOVE it there and are so grateful for the open arms of Diane and Doug!!! I am officially getting a long overdue divorce from my hubby and feeling very strong about my decision. It is finally time for me to take care of ME!!!
I also lost my job at the casino so I am applying for unemployment to tide me over till after my surgery when I can look for work. Though the timing sucked in a way, and being jobless in this economy sucks, it is kind of good. My commute was going to be an hour and a half each way and I was NOT looking forward to that. So, at least I am getting to settle into my new life without the added stress of that. It will all work out as I know God has a plan for me!
And last but not least, my new surgery date is Dec. 1. My stomach continues to grow and I look preggo for real. I was a pregnant nun for Halloween and didn't need props! lol (pictures on my FaceBook if you have one and want to see)
I still really don't know where all the inflammation is coming from, but it is getting worse as well as the hernia growing fast. I did find out exactly what they will be doing this time and it was encouraging news. Fix the hernia, put a layer of mesh, tighten muscles over that mesh and then a different kind of mesh on top of that. He said they will definitely do a tighter job this time and recovery will be harder. Why didn't they do that the first time???? WTF! So, hopefully they will get it right this time.
So, for those who have been asking, that is the full scoop on my life. I am happy and content and so glad God finally gave me the strength and courage to walk away from what has been over for quite awhile now. Of course it is sad to see 27 years of marriage end, but it is the right thing for me to be healthy and be able to live my life to it's fullest. Thank you all for your love, support, and prayers. I love you all with bigg huggs, Becky
I also lost my job at the casino so I am applying for unemployment to tide me over till after my surgery when I can look for work. Though the timing sucked in a way, and being jobless in this economy sucks, it is kind of good. My commute was going to be an hour and a half each way and I was NOT looking forward to that. So, at least I am getting to settle into my new life without the added stress of that. It will all work out as I know God has a plan for me!
And last but not least, my new surgery date is Dec. 1. My stomach continues to grow and I look preggo for real. I was a pregnant nun for Halloween and didn't need props! lol (pictures on my FaceBook if you have one and want to see)
I still really don't know where all the inflammation is coming from, but it is getting worse as well as the hernia growing fast. I did find out exactly what they will be doing this time and it was encouraging news. Fix the hernia, put a layer of mesh, tighten muscles over that mesh and then a different kind of mesh on top of that. He said they will definitely do a tighter job this time and recovery will be harder. Why didn't they do that the first time???? WTF! So, hopefully they will get it right this time.
So, for those who have been asking, that is the full scoop on my life. I am happy and content and so glad God finally gave me the strength and courage to walk away from what has been over for quite awhile now. Of course it is sad to see 27 years of marriage end, but it is the right thing for me to be healthy and be able to live my life to it's fullest. Thank you all for your love, support, and prayers. I love you all with bigg huggs, Becky
Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick
Becky, I am sorry to hear that you have to go through a divorce, but I am so happy that you are taking care of YOU!!! As you and I both know, God works in mysterious ways and as you said he has a plan....You have been in my prayers...I know you are in good hands with Diane and Doug, but if you need anything you've got my number...
I guess, I need to had over the tierra soon....
Keep you head up honey....things can only get better going forward...
Hugs....oxoxoxox
Michele
I guess, I need to had over the tierra soon....
Keep you head up honey....things can only get better going forward...
Hugs....oxoxoxox
Michele
Michele
I think you should keep that tierra, you look great in it, fits you so well. I feel so privliged that Doug and I are in the position to help Becky and her daughter out. Sometimes people just need a fresh start and need a little help, and I am so glad I am able to help her through this.
She's a great gal, the only thing is, I was in her room and I opened a draw and a small York peppermint patty jumped out of the draw and into my mouth....and I just HAD to eat it. I just keep her door closed now, so no food can escape her room
Hugs, Me
She's a great gal, the only thing is, I was in her room and I opened a draw and a small York peppermint patty jumped out of the draw and into my mouth....and I just HAD to eat it. I just keep her door closed now, so no food can escape her room
Hugs, Me
Diane, my friend! What are you doing snooping in Becky's drawers! ewwwww...just the thought..... LOL And you are admitting it?> That surprizes me even more....if you're gonna snoop, don't admit to it!! That way she can't blame you when she discovers the candy is missing...she'll blame Doug!! ^_^
Nancy aka Sunray
PS...we all need an Angel now and then...and You definitely qualify! ;-)
Nancy aka Sunray
PS...we all need an Angel now and then...and You definitely qualify! ;-)
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Oh heck no I wasn't snooping, I heard my name being called. It was driving me crazy and I realized it was coming from a drawer that I had saw her put some peanutes in. She has an entire drawer dedicated to snacks. When I opened that drawer the dang thing just jumped out in my mouth. No I don't snoop....it's her room and her and Tara are now part of the family. Matter of fact, Doug is as old as Becky's father, and Tara is his granddaughter now!! lol poor old Dougie!
LOL just jumped right in your mouth, did they? Well, you know what they say about open mouths catching flies....
gees..did I really type that? LOL Tell Becky that there are SF york peppermint patties...at least that is what my co worker tells me ;-) Might as well make them 'harmless' if they are going to be jumping around LOL
Nancy aka sunray
PS....I know you are not the kind to invade privacy rules....I would NEVER imply anything of the sort ;-) Angels are not snoops..I know that!
gees..did I really type that? LOL Tell Becky that there are SF york peppermint patties...at least that is what my co worker tells me ;-) Might as well make them 'harmless' if they are going to be jumping around LOLNancy aka sunray
PS....I know you are not the kind to invade privacy rules....I would NEVER imply anything of the sort ;-) Angels are not snoops..I know that!
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Becky sorry that you're going through the divorce, but glad you are taking care of yourself. You are in great hands with Diane & Doug. I am glad that they moved you surgery date up and hopefully this will permanently resolve the problem. Sending you love & hugs. x0x0x0
~Katt~ Obesity Help Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/abetterclassoflosers/
Sexy isn't a look, it's a state of mind. ~Me~
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~Dr. Wayne Dyer~
Awwww, my friend Becky....I admit to be being nosy and wondering what was happening in your life, even tho I kinda figured it out by your previous postings. I, too, walked away from a 27 1/2 yr marriage...and my only feelings were RELIEF! I should have made the move years before but doubt, fear and the boys kept me bound to a relationship that was killing me spiritually and mentally.
You are in my prayers...you sound strong, determined and HAPPY! It is wonderful friends like Diane, Doug and Rhonda who give us a chance to start over, BLESS them all! I know you are in Good hands...in more ways than 1 ^_^
{{{Hugs}}}
Nancy aka Sunray
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Best wishes for a bright, healthy and happy future. It takes a lot of courage to make all these life changes all at the same time...you are an awesome and brave gal! It is extra special that you and Diane can be there for not only spiritual companionship...but the physical help for each other too! Good timing!
Lots of love n hugs
Kim in Fontana
Lots of love n hugs
Kim in Fontana
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