I just wanted to welcome you to the Cali Board. Are you and your husband both having surgery. I have seen quite a few couples have surgery together on this site. The Cali board is a great place for support. The people here are so nice. I hope you can find a local support group.
Bebaugh (Elizabeth)
"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending." Carl Bard