I'm Going for It!!! I got a date!!!
After a long night of thinking and of course reading the comments people wrote to me, I made the decision to go forward with the surgery. The fact is that I am weighing my health against a job and right now I do not feel healthy. I would like to feel less tired and get rid of this back and leg pain. I spoke to my supervisor today and told him that I was having major surgery, without getting to specific. He stated that he understood and that arrangements could be made while I was gone to get my work completed. So OH family, my date is now 3/16/05!!! I have a lot to do in 5 weeks! Pray for me.
All right Delicia! I believe in my heart of hearts you are making the right decision. You're correct in only telling your supervisor you are having major surgery, nobody needs to know the specific details.
And you know what? Everything happens for a reason. New job you enjoy, a surgery date, the works.
You'll do just fine. I'm so very happy for you!!!
Peace,
-Deb