Newbie-kind of....

Hello all! I am so happy to be here! I have a long involved story so I will save you the drama...In a thumbnail...I will have RNY on 10/17/05..This has been a long struggle for me...A hard decision, went through it all was scheduled for 12/04; got the stomach flu could not proceed..Insurance excluded the procedure as of 1/1/05; many appeals, etc later I finally got my WONDERFUL employer to agree to cover so...Here I am...would love prayers, etc....Of course many people have been trying to tell me that I should not do this as maybe it was a sign in Dec.... I want this so bad and am POSITIVE now that I will be fine...Well, thanks for listening..I look forward to meeting all of you....Patty

Hi patty, well you sound like you are ready to start this journey. Know there are lots of people on here that are willing to help with any questions you have and share experences we have all had. So good Luck on your upcoming surgery and know your not alone. Be well, Julio

Welcome Patty, I've heard nothing but good things about your surgeon. I bowl with a girl named Hilary who had the surgury with Dr. Crum. We all have these sort of feelings prior to surgery....it is normal and just think in less than a month you'll be on your journey to a new & improved life. This website is a great support tool and we're all here for you! God bless! Kelly

Patty I am sure everyone will agree with me-- if you didn't have thouse small doubts--it wouldn't be normal. Everyone goes through this. You know this is not an easy fix...its as successful as you want it to be. If you have truely done your research--and it sounds like you have-you are ready. All that work with denials and appeals...is an omen too... Its time. Good Luck...and God bless you. Stick to this msg board for the most supportive people in the world. Joanie

Patty- In addition to our prayers and good wishes, you also have a large group of post-operative patients of Dr. Crum's who are ready to help-- whether sharing their experiences at support group meetings, offering their insights into how they managed their struggles and successed, or serving as your mentor. Know that help is only an email (or meeting) away.

Hi Steve, thanks for your response...It is good to hear from a Dr. Crum groupie...He is the best and I know I am in great hands...I will be joining the post op support groups, so maybe I'll see you there! Patty

Patty: Welcome to the Family. Congratulations on making the decision for a better life. Your journey will be a great one. As you can see we have a wonderful group of people on this site and we are like a family. Whenever you have a question, concern or just want to chat, don't hesitate to contact me. As everyone was there for me, I want to be there for any new member who needs a shoulder. Take care and good luck with your steps to be a losing member. Hugs KimC

Wow!! Thank you all for the support...This is a great board!! I hope that I have the sucess all of you have had! It helps so much to see the encouragement that this board provides...And I will most likely take some of you up on your email offer! Thanks again, Patty