Help! I really need support!

I had no support either, my mother was so afraid that I was going to die on the table or from complications. It made me that much more determined to show her that I was going to make it and I did!! I am a size 10 now, no diabetes and she is awed.. so you have to do what is best for you and look for support from the support group, they are the ones that have been there and understand. Good Luck! Jannie