OT: Am I being overly sensitive??

Matthew and I were out looking at houses as we may have to move soon and we were talking about events that I have coming up in July. I have my 25 year class reunion on 7/11 and Comic-Con in San Diego 7/24-7/26. And I was talking about one of the costumes I am putting together. It's an artist friend's concept of Alice in Wonderland. Well, we got to talking about the class reunion. And he said that's only five months away. Then he proceeds to tell me he doesn't think I'll make my goal weight by then, but I'll be close. I am really upset.  Am I just being overly sensitive?? I really feel like he's not being supportive.

Well I think the only thing to do is buckle down even more and make him eat his words!!!!!!  When you are at goal, remind him of how unsupportive he was!  Men **** me off most of the time.

Hugs, Diane

Thanx Diane!! Hugs to you & Doug.

Sorry to say this but...What a butt head!! And Diane, I totally agree with you!
Why would that matter one way or the other anyway? Did I miss something? If you don't make your goal by the time of your reunion then you will 2 days later or whenever, but you will do it with or without the support of your DH. I doubt he even realizes what he has said was hurtful. My advice is talk to him about but not when you are mad or upset. Give your self a cooling off  day or two. Then talk to him about how you are feeling.

HUGS
JOY

Thanx for the support Joy (((hugs))).

GO TO THE GARAGE AND GET THE HAMMER!!!! (see previous post).  DO NOT USE IT, JUST HAND IT TO HIM. 

Then calmly and rationally tell him that he's being a self centered close minded unsupported a$$ and that if he didn't start being more supportive you're going to use the damn hammer on him! 

How dare he!  I don't even know him and I want to kick him in the shin!   My joe gets that way sometimes and I have to remind him how far I've come and where I've been.  I also remind him of where he's been and where he could be without the love and support of a good woman.

Then kick him in the shin.  Do not do one more darn nice thing for him until he adjusts his attitude!

i would take the hammer and break his Dinner plate

Love the hammer idea Mo...thanx! (((hugs)))

Maureen, You have such a way with words!! I love it!! ROTFLMAO!! Thank you. I see you are also an Enlightened Woman.

HUGS
JOY

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!

You ARE being too sensitive girlfriend. YOU are the one in control of YOUR life. Not Matthew or ANYONE else. Buck up and accept the responsibility of taking care of yourself and do your best to DO NOT concern yourself with OTHER PEOPLE'S opinions Katt, even your significant other! First and foremost is to support YOURSELF. Matt is NOT the one living YOUR life. YOU are. YOU will lose whatever weight you will lose.... no more, no less. And that's PERFECT Katt.... PERFECT!!!! If you continue to concern yourself with other folks assessment of your journey you will only sabotage your success.

So, that's my sermon for today...
((((((bigBearHugz)))))