This is what angers me!!!

Why do people come on here, ask or complain about something and you tell them something they don't want to hear and they get pissed?  Then if they can't get satisifation on the boards they start in your PM???  My goodness, no wonder people run from these boards.  People if you don't get the answer you want to hear, at least be an adult about it and take the words with a grain of salt if they get to you, but don't carry on an arguement in peoples PRIVATE MESSAGES!!!  This is a support group, and I try to be very supportive of others, but if I seem to be ignorant to something and I ask a question, crap, don't get angry with me. Maybe I really wanted to know the answer to my question.    I will never be one to stroke your back and say poor baby, but will always be the one to tell you to get up on your feet and move forward.

Thanks for letting me vent.  Those in my PM...stay out unless you are willing to admit to your problems.

Diane

 Love you! =)

Thank you so much.  I guess it is the price you pay for honesty.

Good to see you around, there are so many others that are missing in action lately!!  Good to see you are still there.

Hey Diane.....
When that happened to me, I warned them that if they done it one more time, I would share with the everyone. They didn't listen, so I shared. I cut and pasted everything and show just how stupid some had gotten. I have not seen them fokes around since them, and I am sorry they felt the need to run, but dang my life got some much more peaceful.

I am sorry others are just as NOT smart about things, and have no clue how to let it be..

L

One of the main reasons I don't post to the forums much anymore is that I don't sugar coat anything. I have been flamed and roasted so many times, tried to be run off numberous times. One of my avatars I have is of me in a flame retardant suit....

My thoughts are: if you ask a question and really want to know something, be prepared for the answer. I won't tell you what I think you want to hear, but will tell you my opinion or facts that I have gathered. Any more I just tried to keep enough info in my profile to cover most things....

Life on the boards can be a lonely experience, and it is hard at times to be on the outside looking in and trying to be a part of.

We are all here to help others get through the process of surgery.  It is one of the biggest steps in our lives.  We all get overweight because of one common demoniator, it is eating too much or eating the wrong foods.  I have lived a life of being fat since the age of 5, I, and I know along with alot of others on here, grew up fat, and that is the most horrible thing in the world.  Memories still are very vivid in my mind.  But I faced my reality, my very active lifestyle was cut short at a young age due to problem with my joints, then it was 4 years of sitting and eating, that is when I was way overboard.  I am very happy that I have taken this step, and Darlene, I am glad to see you on the board when you do post.  You have a lot to contribute!  Please do so more often,

Hugs, Diane  whogotalittlecarriedaway

Well Said! 

Hey girlfriend
You tell me who upset you and I will find them and sock them in the nose....no one hurts my Diane.....and don't you ever change - we love you like you are and appreciate your frankness....

I don't know what happened but I am sure you handled it....

I love you girl.

Thank you sweetness.  I have no plans to ever change!  It's black or white to me, you love me or you don't. 

Love you back girl!

Hugs, Diane

I too am a firm believer in "If you don't want the truth, don't ask" I dont' know what happened exacty but I do know, everything I have read that you post is truth.

Hugs to you!
Sue