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RetroChic86
on 11/27/09 6:42 pm
Topic: RE: Transportation Issues. (venting)
i am so sorry
i hope by now everything is worked out 
Life is too short to not have fun. Live your dreams now, do not wait
 
Starting Weight= 353 pounds
Current Weight= 280 pounds
Goal Weight= 220 pounds
RetroChic86
on 11/27/09 6:41 pm
Topic: RE: Leaving today
 welcome to Delaware-or as my friends from New York like to call it...DelaWhere??? lol
Life is too short to not have fun. Live your dreams now, do not wait
 
Starting Weight= 353 pounds
Current Weight= 280 pounds
Goal Weight= 220 pounds
nosurgeryweightloss
on 11/27/09 11:33 am
Topic: RE: New to Obesityhelp.com
Laurie:
I wish you well with your upcoming surgery.  I had a problem many years ago, worked through it without surgery to a really significant weight loss, which I have maintained for the past 25 years or so.  And yes, it is not easy, it is an ongoing battle.  But it is winnable.  As a physician who has now limited his practice to medical bariatrics, I work very hard to assist my patients to achieve their goal with conservative, non-surgical means.  And I also work with others who have already had surgery and now need either ongoing support, or having regained weight years post-surgery and are again seeking a conservative approach to weight loss.
And I understand that nobody on this website is undergoing or comtemplating surgery lightly, and that the decision must have come after so many heartbreaking and fruitless attempts---and certainly you have reached your decision on the January surgery only after great deliberation.  Bariatric surgery is an effective tool for achieving the weight loss you require, and can lead to a healthier you.  So go for it.
I'm sorry you felt I chose my words poorly.  They came from decades of personal experience (me!) and professional experience.  They were not meant to offend.
Good luck!
Laurie S.
on 11/27/09 9:41 am
Topic: RE: New to Obesityhelp.com
 I agree.  I think if those of us on this forum had been able to maintain weight loss by conventional means, we would not be seeking surgical intervention.  As a lifelong struggler with weight, there isn't a program I HAVEN'T tried.  And besides, surgery is not a cure all - it is hard work and a lifelong committment.  As a friend once told me, "the first six months are the surgery, the rest is up to you."  You still have to watch what you eat, you still have to exercise.  This is just a tool to help us get the help we need to succeed.  I appreciate your perspective but know in my heart of hearts that without surgery I will inevitably become diabetic and hypertensive and die much younger than I will after surgery.  Not to mention the improvement to the quality of life following surgery...... the surgery is my stepping stone - the rest is up to me.
Laurie =)
my blog: www.laurot95.blogspot.com
HW - 361/SW - 338/GW - ONEderland somewhere......
(loss reflects 23# loss pre-op)

        
Sue T.
on 11/27/09 8:46 am - Wilmington, DE
Topic: RE: New to Obesityhelp.com

There isn't one person here who would chose surgery before trying other methods.  People who finally come to the difficult decision of using the surgery tool in their ONGOING weight battle, have been battling for YEARS.  I didn't make A concerted effort and fail.  I succeeded.  And gain it all back.  And then succeeded again.  And gained it all back and more.   And then succeeded again and gained it all back.  There is no "FAILING".  It's just the same b.s. over and over and over.  Your words were chosen poorly. 

Member Services
on 11/24/09 6:19 am - Irvine, CA
Topic: Health Tracker Updates In Time For The Holidays - Profile Integration and Workouts

Today we released a couple of major updates to Health Tracker just in time for the holidays (as we continue on the path to Health Tracker world domination :). These updates include, 1) Profile display of Health Tracker - If you choose to, you are now able to display/share your Health Tracker within your personal profile. This can be kept completely private, it can be shared with only your friends or with the entire ObesityHelp community. 2) My Workouts - You are now able to build and store custom workouts that can be used over and over again. My Workouts will allow you to log multiple exercise/activity items at one time so you don't have to search for individual exercises each time you want to log your activity or exercise session.

Profile Display of Health Tracker .

The profile display of Health Tracker includes Body, Food Log, Exercise Log and the Macronutrient Report. As mentioned above, this can be kept entirely private or you can choose to share your Health Tracker information with friends, family, your bariatric surgeon or other clinicians.

In order to see the profile view of Health Tracker, when viewing your profile or another member's profile, look for the Health Tracker link to the right of the avatar. If there is no Health Tracker link, the profile view of Health Tracker has been set to private.


 

The privacy settings for Health Tracker can be found in the "Settings" section of My OH. To access your Health Tracker setting click My OH at the top of any page on ObesityHelp, select "Settings" on the left, click the Health Tracker tab and choose the "Sharing" option. Or, just click here to access your Health Tracker Sharing options :)

Workouts

My Workouts makes it quick and easy to log routine exercise and activity. For those who perform similar exercises on a regular basis, with My Workouts you can create a workout consisting of a series of exercises you often perform and instead logging each exercise indivivudally, My Workouts allows to log a single item (a workout) that contains all of the exericses you have performed. Build it once and log it any number of times.

Under My Workouts you will see a list of workouts that you have created and saved. You can log workouts directly from My Workouts by selecting "I did this", choose the day and click "Save"

You can also search for workouts you have created directly from your Exercise Log.

Create your first workout now!

One other addition

For your convenience, in this release we have also made some changes to the account deactivation process. In case you ever have the need to deactivate your ObesityHelp account, you can access this function by clicking My OH at the top of any page on ObesityHelp, select "Settings" on the left, and under the "General" tab select "Manage". Instructions for deactivating your account can be found there.

Have a great Thanksgiving and look for more updates soon!

If you have any questions, comments or concerns about this release, please post them in this thread on the Main Message Board.

Melissa_H
on 11/22/09 8:44 am - Pedricktown, NJ
Topic: RE: research - revision surgery
Sorry it took some time to reply, have been busy. I have my 3 year old niece living with me right now, and sometimes things get crazy.

I talked to my dad, he is gaining weight, I think he is stretching his stomach back out. He had gallstones about a year ago, and went to the hospital for it, and the surgeon there told him something about they cant do the revision for he had some type of problem it wasn't done right, and something about he has his intestines and his stomach fused together, I'm not sure I didn't understand what he was saying about it all. I gave him the information for CHRIAS and told him to give them a call and let them check it out. A second opinion would not hurt.

I know he had the surgery at Underwood hospital but cant remember the doctors name
                   
Melissa_H
on 11/22/09 8:38 am - Pedricktown, NJ
Topic: RE: Plastic Surgery
hello neighbor .. just the other side of Logan township in Pedricktown ... I heard there is a good one in Christiana over by the hospital. I forget his name right now, but i will research it if you'd like.
                   
Melissa_H
on 11/22/09 8:35 am - Pedricktown, NJ
nosurgeryweightloss
on 11/21/09 5:22 am
Topic: New to Obesityhelp.com
I applaud those who choose bariatric surgery, given its benefits.  However, I have always urged patients (I am a physician) to first make a concerted non-surgical approach to their weight issue.
For those of you who have not seriously worked at a well-designed weight management program, please consider doing it before you seek surgery.  For those of you who have made a concerted honest effort and failed, I wish you good luck in your surgical solution to your problem!
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