On June 10, 2008 at 6:32 AM Pacific Time, Jenn B. wrote:
Honestly, I stopped posting on OH about food until well just the other day, because unfortunately this does happen.
While I understand many people *may* have good intentions, often times I've found that because this is such a progressive segment of the medical field, individuals who had the proceedure a year out, well are like Windows 95, they still work, but they haven't recieved all the latest and greatest "upgrades". For example, I know my doctor changed their meal plan probably 2 months before my surgery, based off of a trial group experiment vs. compliance. The thing is many people can't handle 2 weeks of liquids, etc, and they cheat anyway, except by that time they are SO frustrated that they have something horrible. By upping the food choices, at least in my practice, it has helped compliance dramatically.
You know your doctor, and obviously you picked them because they were best. Honestly, going to your nutritionist on food will always be your best bet. The individuals on OH are great about everything else, I've never had an issue talking about fills, etc, however, the one thing that always gets dicey is 0-3 month post op foods.
I'm glad it went down well =)
Jenn,
I do understand what you are saying here, but I caution you about the way you are saying it. Per your statement, I am certainly a "Windows 95" person if not an earlier edition such as Windows 3.0 from 1990.
I had my band placed in January 2003. That said, I have a ton of experience that is valuable to folks who are new to the process and the eating habits of band folks. As for your inference that folks like myself "still work, but they haven't received the latest and greatest upgrades." Personally, I find that insulting. I lead the lapband support group for my doctor's office. I read everything - yes, everything - I can find on the lapband. I can quote statistics that many folks have never heard of. I am a very informed banded person who has been living with the band for 5+ years.
My experience is invaluable to folks who are newly banded. In fact, when I do seminars for my doctor (who was the FIRST doctor in the Pacific Northwest to place a band in a patient, is a designated Center of Excellence Surgeon, was instrumental in getting that designation for the hospital he operates at and requires a 30 day liquid diet after the band) often defers the questions to me because as he says, "Vicki knows the answer. She successfully lives it every day."
Please think of the value of the information that veteran folks like me can give to newly banded folks like you before you make statements like you did on this post. We are all here trying to help the newbies such as yourself be as successful as we have been.
Take care and good luck on your journey.