I've been postponed! (Jan 26)

I went in for my pre-op visit with my surgeon today, and I got an unfortunate surprise. I have gained 7 lbs in the last month. 7 lbs! I have been in total shock all day, because I actually thought I'd lost. So I guess it's a combination of things... a little neglect during the holidays, a lack of exercise lately since I've injured my shoulder, etc, etc. He is also concerned about my leg being swollen. A couple weeks ago my PCP recommended I have another leg ultrasound done to see if there was a blood clot causing it. (Mind you, I did this 3 times last year! No clots!) I declined doing it for financial reasons, but of course, my surgeon wants me to do it anyways. So I walked next door to the hospital and did the ultrasound, and whaddya know... no clot! So ultimately, he's decided to postpone my surgery until January 26th now. I'm sort of heartbroken about it, because I had everything lined up. My Mom had taken off a couple days of work, my husband has arranged to take off work, and now it's being postponed. But I keep telling myself that the surgeon just wants to be thorough, and that it is for the best. So now I play the waiting game a little longer!

Oh girl!! I know this feeling well!!! I have everything ready, but I can not have surgery until 1-2 week in FEBRUARY, due to the lap band is new to the hospital I am going to, the surgery is not new , but the procedure is therefore They are waiting for certain grants, policies, etc and I am going NUTS!!! I know the heartbreak, but hang in ther. It will be here before you know it! I am hoping mine is!! LOL Sandi

OHH Cathryn im sorry,but if Dr.Steiner wants you to wait then it is ment to be,he has you best intrest at hand. But im sure it is an inconveinice for you and your family,but dont worry it will all come together when the time is right...............vickie

Yes, you're right. But I am glad that I got to meet him, and he is very caring. Very concerned. Very... (what's the word?) sincere! On the flipside, I would be nervous if he didn't take precautions.

Everything is gonna work out 4 the best. My prayers r with u..Tony

I am sorry to hear this Cathryn, I do know how that feels. Hang in there it will happen.

Hi Cathryn, The 26th will be here before ya know it, My leg used to swell also. I had the ultrasound done as well and it came back fine, but since my surgery it has never swelled again. I'd say you'll be fine and we'll be pullin for ya. Keep us posted.

I can feel your pain. I know how frustrating the waiting game is, but I know in my heart that this is how God meant it to be. You may never see how this change affects you, but I know you will come out better in the end for it. Try to exercise a little and go on the Atkins diet to lose some weight before the surgery. Just keep your focus - you will be surprised at how this extra time will work in your favor. (The week before my surgery, I went through a sadness like I was losing my best friend. And in a way, I did. Food comforted me when I was down or was there when I was happy and no one else was. Food was my crutch and my best friend. It was nice to grieve for that loss - in my own way.) Now, one week out, I have lost 23 lbs!!! Just think of those great rewards at the end of the rainbow, and know that I am there for you. Since your surgery is pushed out, I should be healed enough to come visit you in the hospital and take a walk with you - ha ha. Take care! - Ginger

23 lbs in one week? You go girl!!! That is fabulous! Thank you for your kind words. Everyone that replied, thank you. I will be joining you "losers" soon.