I'm soo bummed and just need to vent

I am soo freakin bummed out right now. I just feel like ****! Excuse my french. I've been talking to this guy who I have a major major crush on... and we've hung out and he acted like he likes me... but anyways, we had plans for tonight and he never called me back. I feel sooo bummed out. He's a really good looking guy.. he's got his stuff together and he's doing good... i just think he doesn't like me because i'm bigger... I hate that bull**** Just because someone might be big or whatever doesn't make them ugly. I just wish men didn't think that way. What someone looks like on the outside shouldn't determine their selfworth. GRRR. I just want to kick his asss!!!!! He even told my friend he thought I was a cool chick... but he's probably so shallow that he just cares about looks. Oh well, I'm going to go ... i just had to vent before I broke something. lol.

men suck sometimes  hope u find u someone that likes u for u

 

 

tina

Vent away.... but something could have come up and you may want to give the fellow the benefit of the doubt. Wait until you know for sure before you string him up!

Has he indicated to you that your weight bothers him?  If not, perhaps you have the weight problem.  If he hasn't given you any indication that your weight is an issue for him then your going to have to find another reason that he may not be available to you tonight. While your waiting you might make a list of all of your positive attributes, you are more than your weight but as long as YOU believe it is an issue, it will be one. Best of luck.... alot of us are in the same boat and we all better jump out.  We are all on the journey to health, we cannot allow people to look at us and treat us like they believe fat people should be treated.  Each and every one of us are soooo much more..... Show him your worth!!  If he's decent, he'll see it in no time.  If he is hung up about your weight...  you let him know you can lose weight but he won't be able to change his ****ty attitude.