Anyone watching the Biggest Loser?
Last night, the season premier began. This guy is on the show and he is almost 400 pounds. He had RNY and didn't lose the weight. "This is his final attempt". He visited the doctor on the show and they showed him his stomach, which was still the size of an egg by the way. The doctor made a comment like... "See THESE surgeries aren't the answer". It was SO negative and I found myself very disappointed and frustrated with my beloved show. I am only 2 years out. I KNOW that the weight can come back. I KNOW that people DO lose sight and for whatever reason, the surgery doesn't work for them...or it doesn't work anymore. However, instead of blaming "These surgeries" shouldn't the person be held accountable? Where was the accountability to him? He has the stomach the size of an egg and yet he weighs almost 400 pounds. For my own ignorance...can someone explain HOW that is possible and what does a person have to do in order to do this? I would think that it would take CONSTANT eating of HIGH FAT foods. Am I right? Ok....anyone else see this. Was anyone else as offended by the negativity as I was?
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To me, this show is unrealistic all the way around. They show these Obese and SMO people in the most negative light. Of course they have watched the show before so they know what they're signing up for. If you follow up with people from the original season and seasons past you will see most people have put weight back on, a significant amount at that.
In regards to this being the easy way out, yeah for the first year it was simple. Of course going through surgery to lose weight by any means isn't easy ... but the first year was. After that, it gets difficult and that's when the real work begins.
I think that surgeries do fail, sometimes it is because of the patient, and sometimes it is something with the surgery itself ( stomas enlarge, staple line disruptions, etc).. There are a lot of reasons for someone to gain weight besides blaming themselves. When weight gain is because of a person's non-compliance it is generally not because of the stomach size but the stoma size. Even though his stomach is the size of an egg, the stoma is probably enlarged allowing everything to spill into his intestines.
I have put on weight since surgery and I can tell you it doesn't take CONSTANTLY eating high fat foods to do so. I wasn't offended by the negativity of the show at all. For some people, these surgeries simply are not the answer.
Thank you so much...that does help me to understand about the stoma enlargement. I didn't know about that part of it. It just really scared the heck out of me. I am very fortunate to be involved with a doctor that has a really strong after care program. I think that is a pretty important part of all of this. I looked at this man and I DID sympathize with him...I sympathize with anyone that is that large. I didn't mean to sound like I was "blaming" him really. I was just wondering if I was the only one out there that thought it was offensive in the negative tone of "these surgeries". Maybe I am just sensitive because I feel that alot of people out there don't understand what we have gone through and the struggles we still have and always will have. They hear this and it fuels their negativity about surgery and people that have it. I do commend these contestants in working out like this. OMG...I would DIE!! I hate that when they are at their largest, they have to take off their shirts and expose themselves that way just to get on a scale and see how big they are. It breaks my heart. I would NEVER have wanted to stand in front of America in a sports bra at my heaviest. However, as they shrink down and get more fit and lean, they get to wear shirts when they weigh in...does that make sense? Like I said, I DO love the show and like a train wreck, I will continue to not be able to divert my eyes. I will continue to cry. I will continue to feel their pain. I also understand that surgery is not the answer for everyone. I am still trying to figure out HOW to not gain it back. To me, maintaining is way harder than losing was. It is so easy to fall back into old habits. I am just scared to death!! Thanks for helping me to understand a bit better...that was what I was looking for!!
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B J
I was so happy for the 19 year old who lost 30lbs.. HOLY CRAP!!! I hope he goes far!!!
I get more upset about everyone getting there and then a week later half of them go home.. It breaks my heart for these people....
This is I believe there "largest" season! I 'm looking forward to the next episode
I can eat anything right now, but if i gain a pound i make sure I watch what i eat for a few days, and make sure it comes back off, I just gained through Christmas, eating crap I shouldn't have, but I am back to doing good now!! I am worried about the future, but if I can stay focused, and start exercising this spring, I think I will be ok.
and you guys are right, these are the biggest contestants I have seen on there, I felt sorry for the man that collapsed last night, it is heart wrenchign to see what we can become
Laura
I don't like any of the publicity that refers to wls as the easy way out. Losing weight no matter what method is tough and keeping it off is even harder.
Gaining scares me. I don't want to go back to where I was.
I stay within a 2 lb. range right now. I am trying to maintain as I really don't want to lose anymore - but then I think - maybe I should lose more in case I start gaining!!!!! OMG It is enough to drive me crazy.
I do what Lisa does......I keep a close watch and simply MAINTAIN. I weigh in about 1x a week now.
Leslie