Really Ticked Off (sorry so long)
I read everything that is on this board and I have never seen anyone post anything that I found offensive..unless I posted it....hmmm...I hope that whoever those people are continue to do so ---to add some spice to this board...I mean shyt, you can only have soo many songs of the day, feed bags, and what did you do todays...As I quote a SUPER FANTASTIC MAN THAT I KNOW...."QUIT BEING SUCH A POLLYANNA" :P
"Taking life with a grain of salt, a wedge of lime and a shot of tequila"
Thanks for this. I think this is something we all tend to forget, particularly when we're overweight. I, as so many others have already stated, hope to be a more happier version of myself. I worry about the emotional issues that can come after surgery but will have to cross that bridge when we come to it.
Oh and I too enjoy the banter on the board, it makes me want to meet these people in person! I've wondered about drinking alcohol after surgery, having heard horror stories, but don't have a problem with it being discussed.
Hi Heather -
If you read any of my posts, you'll find several references to how "drunk" I get after just a little alcohol. I'm not a drinker, MAYBE once a month, but in all actuality, probably even less than that. A lot of rny people do find that they get drunk quickly - in fact, I work for the Maryland State Police and have been talking with the head of our Chemical Test for Alcohol Unit (the breathalyzer guys). I'm actually willing to be their test subject just to see if we do, in fact, metabolize it quicker. Anyway, my personal experience is that yes, I can feel "drunk" after a few sips (depending upon the strength, of course), but the buzz lasts a very short time. For me, the scary thing is that since alcohol lowers our inhibitions and ability to reason, I find that I tend to eat while I drink alcohol - an all-time no-no for ANY wls patient, regardless of how far out they may be.
There's also the question of trans-addiction - trading our addiction to food to something else. It's not a concern for me (probably because I'm honest enough with myself to know that I still have and will likely always have, an addiction to food), but I know some people have indicated that it could be if they're not careful.
Additionally, some surgeons have asked their patients to sign "contracts" stating they wouldn't drink for a certain period of time post-op. And it seems as if each surgeon has different parameters concerning alcohol use.
I'm sure this is now all as clear as mud (LOL!), but I hope it did help a little.
Take care,
Tia
I think what you said is beautiful, and seems to be much needed around here right now. I agree with every word and that we are all loveable, worthwhile, loveable human beings deserving of happiness and peace in our lives and in our hearts. Yes I like the REBT approach to life, and what you gave that student of your was a precious gift. Like the quote by Eleanor Roosvelt says, "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent."
I hope you stop lurking and post more, because what you have to say is meaningful and adds balance to the supportive environment of this board.
