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There are times I have been burned before when I let the checking acct go unchecked, LOL,
I do use online and phone payments but I also have paid in person or by mail, so I always strive to rercord any transaction in the checkbook ledger and calculate how much money is actually there.
The act of writing it down with pen helps my brain to get the message that I have spent the money, and the act of subtracting it and writing the balance tells my brain what I have left in there. I have no other way that has worked for me to keep my brain caught up with my money. I cannot tell you how many times I have gotten off track when I tried to use the methods like checking the bank website, using a computer accounting program, automatic draft payments-those are the worst! I have the most control when I log it by hand.
For me this is just like food. If I don't keep track of what I eat, it all gets forgotten and I can go way over my "balance" for the day, know what I mean? For me, money management and dietary management are close cousings and I have the same issues with both.

Now, spending it? I do that daily.


April ...My Cup Runneth Over
" Life may not be the party we hoped for,
but while we're still here we may as well dance." ... Andy Rooney