update on myself

so much has happened to me in the last couple months ,I went threw a seperation from my husband , then having all the appointments for surgery, come to find out my husband was sort of against the surgery he would not go to the doc with me or anything ..in the back of his mind he thought if I lost all this weight I would not want him any more so he just give up on everything .... we finnally talked after filing for divorce !! and told me all of this I just could not believe it !! there was no reason for hom to feel like that !! I have told him I love him and thats who I want ...but any ways we got everything streightend out and he is going to support me in this , thats all I wanted you no ... he new I am having surgery for my health !! I want to be here for my grand children . I have all my app done except sleep study and am ready for surgery ...am so excited am just so happy about all this ...on another hand my children are fighting me all the way against my husband coming home ..thay think am crazy to take him back so I have the whole house in a uproar!!!!! hope everyone is doing good out there I check the site as much as I can just dont post much hugs to all Sherry

Well good luck with everything...My husband does'nt want me to do this either....but not same reasons....but good luck//

I am so surprised that I only had 1 replie to that message, I felt like I poured my heart and sole out and no one had any thing to say ..I really thought a lot of that would hit home for some of you .. hugs Sherry