My Daughter....

I think she is starting to worry about me ..now she says she dont want me to have the surgery ..she wants me to stay the way I am ...she says mom I love the person you are ..you wont be the same after you lose all that weight ...well I reasured her that I was doing this for my health because I want to be here a lot longer with her ...its just hard ..I think she is just worried about me ..she is 15 the baby of the family . anyone else have any of these issues ?/ Sherry

Sherry, my 10 year grandaughter was the same way. I asked her if she still felt sad about my losing weight now. She said no, she thought I would change before & now she says I haven't. If there is a time she can go to the doctor or support group meeting it might help her to understand. Nan

Yep, and my daughter was a full fledged adult. My oldest son had the most trouble with it, but when he saw I was fine, he was too. The kids are just worried that something might go wrong. After its over with she will be ok. Hope this helps. God bless you, Annette

Hi Sherry, I have a friend Who's son talked to Gregs kids two years ago. He calmed them right down. He asked me to give you his phone number if you want it. Trust me you really do want this number. This friend has been a big help to me personally and to a lot of other people as well. He really knows his stuff bunny Just click on contact at the bottom of this post and send me your real e-mail address, and I can give you more info. God bless, Annette

I agree with all of you ..she is worried somthing might go wrong , Annette let me talk to her about talking to someone else , thank you Sherry